Which is the best and easiest way to make your wife forgot that mild snapping of

By Bala
@balasri (26537)
India
March 28, 2008 7:14am CST
yours? Apologizing, Or start talking about the things of her interest gregariously as if you haven't done anything wrong making her laugh and forget whatever happened.
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@SViswan (12051)
• India
29 Mar 08
lol...my husband does apologize in his own way...pretending nothing happened (it used to get me mad at first...but I realized it's his way of apologizing)...and making litte funny jokes to get me laughing. But keep in mind each person is different...you ought to kow what ticks with your wife.
@balasri (26537)
• India
29 Mar 08
Though she is so special to me she is a very normal and down to earth person who never gives me the trouble of searching for new ways that ticks with her.
@balasri (26537)
• India
29 Mar 08
It sounds so familiar and it is the same in all houses I think.
@SViswan (12051)
• India
29 Mar 08
For normal, Indian housewives (which I am not..lol), I've seen just pretneding nothing happens works. My mother-in-law is one such person...and I used to wonder how she could just forgive the way my father-in-law snaps at her! I would think...if ever my husband did that to me he would get a talking to...and maybe because of it I would react more harshly than I normally would have. But I soon learnt that silence works better...and he is apologetic and like I said shows it in his own way. Sometimes, he does talk about it and say that he knows he was wrong to snap at me...but by then I would have got over it already.
• Philippines
28 Mar 08
I guess it's a case to case basis. It depends on the person. But of course, apologizing is a good start. A little space won't hurt as well, but don't take the space for granted. Women in general are complex people. Just be sincere in apologizing and I am sure all will be well. Happy weekends!
@balasri (26537)
• India
28 Mar 08
I have made her laugh and she has forgotten the happening completely.Thanks for the advice.We have already started the week end happily.
• Philippines
28 Mar 08
Oh that is great! I am happy for you and your wife. Happy weekends!
@balasri (26537)
• India
28 Mar 08
Thanks a lot friend.
@vsraovsr (734)
• India
29 Mar 08
I feel it's human to apolizise as your hurt her both physically and mentally for whatsoever the reason be and it's important for you to value her dignity.
@balasri (26537)
• India
29 Mar 08
The discussion was started on a light vein and I very well know that I am the guardian of her dignity.
@Breath (1297)
• United States
28 Mar 08
Sincer I am sorry then make her laugh.While she is laughing take her in your arms and steal a kiss.I am sure then the world would melt away.