Have you loved someone so much ..........

March 28, 2008 7:36am CST
Have you ever been in a situation that hating someone whom you love ( can be any one your mother , sister , brother ,partner .....)is the only to bring back your life which is fallen apart .You get obsessed with that person and your life becomes ruined .How can you salvage your life when whatever you do in some way has an affiliation to that person .You know this relationship can go nowhere but as humans as we are we persist the impossible .Have you come across this feeling , if so how did you deal with it ?.Or what would you do if something like this crops up in the times to come ? with regards www.chocolatesavy.com
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@rev1wendy (611)
• United States
28 Mar 08
Oh, yes! I have most definately been there! If you would like, you can go to my Helium page http://helium.com/users/389691 and read the article entitled "Moving On". I was obsessed! There is no other word for it. He was (is) 16 years younger than I am. Good looking, and the biggest liar I have ever known. But, I loved (still love) him. I guess I always will. He lied, cheated, lied, stole from my family and friends, and did I mention he lied. When I found out that he was cheating yet again, I knew it had to be over. I tried to pick up the pieces, I think I missed a few, and move on. It took over a year of tears and healing, but I am now in a relationship that is built on trust and mutual respect. In order for that respect to be in a relationship, there is no good relationship without it, you have to first respect yourself. You can't respect yourself if you are allowing someone to destroy your life. God bless.