Playing favorites
By magrylouyu
@magrylouyu (1627)
United States
March 30, 2008 11:21am CST
I dont really know how everyone up here thinks this is OKAY!? My father-in-law favors my stepson. There was a point were our trailer didnt have any heat and all we had was a space heater in my husband and my room. I had my 2 daughters aged 3 1/2 and 2 in our room sleeping and not really being able to leave because it was too cold in the rest of the house. My father in law was willing to take my stepson but not my girls. even my husbands mom says that "well it's because of the situation your step son is in" I said what are you talking about!!? she said "well because billy has full custody of his son and his mother doesnt really pay attention to him everyone will see him a little different!" I was so angry that my husbands side of the family thinks that this is ok!!!! I called my mom up. She told me if she was able she would have taken ALL THREE children, not just one and make the other 2 suffer. I personally dont think that is very fair. Am I being too protective of my own children or is it really right that everyone sees my stepson differently because of his "situation" ??? Do any of you have this problem with your parents favoring a certian child?
1 response
@Swaana (1205)
• India
30 Mar 08
Many a times it so happens when it comes to step kids. Even though you love your stepson and he too is close to you, people see it differently. He had come into your inlaws' life before you had come, so they play this favouritism. Dont take it to too much to your heart but make sure you treat all the three just the same. Even though you are doing it already, start giving equal attention to all the three.
@magrylouyu (1627)
• United States
30 Mar 08
but thats the thing. nobody knew about him. My husband didnt even know he had a son until he was 18 months old! that's how stupid this girl is. so nobody on my husbands side of the family knew he even had a son. but yes they ALL get treated equal


