Is ur first date a success or failure???

Well my first date was a failur but I married the same guy and now I'm very happy that I made this decision. I found him rude, illsensitive, idiot and stupid on first date. Then my sister forced me to go out with him. We eventually made up and now we are together. My parents also thought he will not be okay for me. But as he was well settled and was over protactive about me and our relationship, I made this decision.