Do other people make you feel FAT and UGLY?

sometimes I'll make others feel that they are too fatty.

Unfortunately it seems that there are always those immature people that feel so bad about themselves they point out other peoples insecurities just so they dont have to look at themselves. For me, it seems I can never get through a relationship without my boyfriend (exes) telling me at some point that I am fat. It's been a killer to my self esteem, once I went to a party and was having a great time until someone called me fatty and then fifteen minutes later (after slapping the guy in the face) his friend called me the same thing even though he outweighed me by a hundred, I pointed this out to him and he followed me outside and beat me in the face, It was an awful night. I am now nine months pregnant and yesterday I was walking across the street at the mall and some guy yelled out "walk a little faster and you might burn a calorie". I dont understand how people so cruel are allowed outside of there houses. Ofcourse Im not skinny right now I am days away from poppin a kid out. Even when I weighed 115 pounds my boyfriend at the time told me I was fat when we were fighting. I am only 5 foot one and have always been within my healthy weight range however there is always someone out there that doesnt want you to feel good about yourself. It sucks because now I dont trust men, havent been with one throughout this pregnancy, I dont go to parties and I dont trust a lot of people who call themselves my friends so I just stay inside its my safe cave. I finally went out to the mall and I couldnt go the whole day without someone trying to bring me down. Its hard for me to find peace in the matter but I know I will. Its cruel to call anyone names, unless ofcourse its your ex boyfriend and he has called you the three letter word that all woman hate. These people must be extremely miserable and have only a few braincellls left to talk to other people like that. Kharma makes its way, sometimes I guess it just takes longer than we want.

When growing up,I remember the "perfect" figure was 36-24-36 and that myth hurt alot of girls growing up.Pictures all showed girls whose waist you could put your hands around.This was also the time when girls were expected to marry and be stay-at-home mothers. It took me a long time to realize that someone can not "make" me feel bad.If I chose to accept their beliefs,then I have set myself up for guilt and depression.I am comfortable with my weight and my looks.I guess maturity has a lot to do with how we feel younger.

Yes,sort of.I a little bit fat,and I am short in high.I used always blame my parents ,cause I am the shortest in my family,I thought they gave me too much work to do when I was a little age.They bought me some sort of heighten shoes and other facilities that help me grow high.But all turned out just a waste of money.Modern society most people go to extremes to judge others by appearances.I know that's too superficial.But myself I can't avoid that either.If I have to find a boyfriend,then he must be tall and not too ugly.If he is short in heigh ,I probably won't consider him ,unless he is really talented. When I watch the TV,the all actress are beautiful slim and tall,they do make me feel fat and too normal.But whatever,I can't change anything.I just need to keep fit and be healthy.