Hey iam scared...:(

India
April 1, 2008 12:50am CST
I got engaged 2 months bck. But everytime i think about marriage i get really scared. All kinds of thoughts n questions invade my mind. Like- wht if he dsnt like me aftr mrg? Wht if i dsnt like him aftr mrg? Wht if he is rude 2 me or hits me or dominates n control my life? What if d relationshp jst dsnt wrk out? Y is it so terrifying 2 even think about it?
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@subha12 (18452)
• India
1 Apr 08
i think many woman feel so. its natural to feel that as a life of an woman seems most uncertain in marriages. also you have to adjust to a new family.just to know is it an arranged marriage that you have not communicated much with your would be husband?
• India
1 Apr 08
Yes.its an arranged mrg. I hv spoken 2 hm on 4 or 5 times. He seems a shy person n doesnt open up easily. Bt iam planning 2 stop talkin 2 him coz everytime i tlk 2 him my mood is off n d nly thing i think- o my god.iam gettin married n i hv 2 leave my family n go wt him. He wrks in US n most probly d mrg wl b in novmbr. I cnt go on feeling sad n depressed abt leaving my parents 4 d nxt 6 months whenever he cls.
@sungat (1016)
• Pakistan
1 Apr 08
donot worry,only think of now no one knows of his fufture so try to be happy and wait and lets see what gone a happen in your upcoming days
@lilaclady (28236)
• Australia
1 Apr 08
Well I think those who going into a marriage sure of what they think things are going to like are fooling themselves, marriage is a risk for anyone, I think all you have to do is be as sure as you can be about how you feel, get married with the thought that if it doesn't work out the way you want then you end it, its not the end of the world just be happy, and do your best to make it work, thats all you can do....I wish you well, I think having a few doubts is ok it means you are not looking at your new life as a dream like in the movies type thing... best wishes to you.