im sorry i just cant do it!!! what do yo think?

United States
April 1, 2008 2:05pm CST
one of my cousin hav ethis unsuall the most special day of her life as a women to get married. we are all prepared in the church. we are just as happy as her! in the usuall ceremony of wedding in the philippines; here comes the bride then she is anxious about where is her sonn to be husband, then she decided to calm down and trying to be relax, after 3 hours(wow it is such a long wait there) the groom arrived then he just passed on the bride a small note. then he ran.... the note said: im sorry i just cant.... cant.... cant do it! what do you think?
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10 responses
@jammyt (2822)
• Philippines
13 Aug 08
Oh my gosh! That must have hurt like hell. I pity your cousin. And the guy has no guts to tell her before the day of the wedding? He had to wait on the ay itself and humiliate her like that? Well, at least your cousin knows he isn't worth it all and most of all at least she found out BEFORE they got married instead of after. It is still a blessing. Don't worry, karma happens to people.
@msedge (4012)
• United States
7 Jul 08
Wow!Why he waited on the wedding day until he gave up!He should done that before the date of the marriage so that your cousin will not be put to shame.I am sorry for your cousin but she deserve a better man.Its good that they never get a chance to get married because it will just hold her from being happy.She is still lucky, she still single than marrying the guy who didn't love her.
@rhane7315 (5670)
• Philippines
2 Apr 08
that man was a fool. better think twice before you do it
• Canada
2 Apr 08
OMG that is just cruel. The is no excuse for leaving your fiance at the alter. I hope she can get over this and find someone that really loves her. i am so sorry to hear that someone could be so stupid to wait til the day to say they can't get married to someone.
@Moliliuzu (141)
• China
2 Apr 08
wow,i think that only happen in the tv play.i can't image how deeply the bride hurts if it comes in reality.the groom is irresponsible and hateful. he is imprudent when making decision.
@gabrielle47 (1221)
• Philippines
2 Apr 08
Wow that is really a heartbreak to your cousin. I was wondering why the guy pushed with the wedding when in the last minute just decided that he cant marry the girl? It will be such a time that your cousin will get over it and heal her broken heart. I hope that she will not have any fears in getting marreid in the future or hate guys for that matter. The guy could have asked the girl a better date not to marry her other than the day of their wedding. It was not only a shame on her but also on her family. As we say it here in the Philippines, the guys "have no BALLS" and is not a man for that matter!
@rposta07 (240)
• United States
2 Apr 08
Oh my goodness that is terrible! I mean, it is better than having to get a divorce or go through a bunch of fights or separations, but he should have let her know waayy earlier than that moment! I mean, everyone was so excited and spent all this money on a wedding, and all for nothing! I think that was a little selfish not to do it the day before or ealier than that!
• United States
1 Apr 08
Oh my goodness I could have cried after reading this. My heart goes out to your cousin. For him to let her know by passing a note and then running like a coward. Tell your cousin to cry, and then cry some more. After she has finised crying, tell her to hold her head up high because he is the one who messed up and for her to move on with her life. He wasn't the man for her but the one that is, is coming soon.......hold tight!
@rockvixen (894)
• United States
1 Apr 08
Wow! Then why did he even bother asking her to marry him? How could he be so cold as to do that. She must have been devestated, poor girl. I think it was a stupid and selfish thing of him to do, that's a huge waste of money on her family. If I was her, I don't think I'd trust a guy after that, it would be something that would hurt me always. How dare he leave her at the alter like that. What an a**hole!
@Galena (9120)
1 Apr 08
better not to get married if you're not sure. even if it is the day of the wedding.