Loving Traits!

@SomeCowgirl (32255)
United States
April 2, 2008 2:12pm CST
It has been said that you and the one you love will share some characteristic traits, or otherwise just traits. Do you share a specific trait with your love? I do. My Fiance and I have the exact same eye sight. It is a bit freaky but we do.
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@dashenko (10)
• United States
2 Jun 08
Yeah that often does occur not just with boyfriends, fiances, husbands, girlfriends, wives. It sometimes occurs when two or more people wind up staying within a proximity area or actually are "hanging out" a lot together. In my opinion it acts a lot like static electricity. At first it stays in a more dormant mode but when you, say for instance, rub a balloon both you and the balloon now carry an electric charge. Ok maybe its not the best analogy, but sometimes when two people are together a lot subconsciously the two you start adapting to the companionship of each other, yeah I know really digging into Darwinism here but hey its just a theory, and you start carrying similar traits as the other sometimes meeting in the middle and sometimes it's only one of the people involved but it still happens and you hardly ever notice, due to the fact it happens so gradually, until after at least most of the adaptation has in fact already occurred. Once again i must clarify that these are not facts as much as they are opinions, or rather theories mind you.
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@SomeCowgirl (32255)
• United States
3 Jun 08
I get what your saying, and I suppose that's a good theory. I guess it's almost like a coat you don in the winter, I don his attributes just like he dons mine... so yea, I get what your saying.....
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• China
4 Jun 08
wow, dashenko, your theory's too complicated for me, but i bet it's correct, i have the same feeling, it's just that i don't know how to explain from a technological aspect **Enjoy life~~**
• United States
5 Jun 08
Dude your theory makes sense but at the same time I think your getting too into it lol,but I can see where your coming from,and I think in some of your examples you are correct,and that you would do well as a professor because they like to ramble as well lol.
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@elitess (5071)
• Ipswich, England
3 Jun 08
I believe i have quite a few similar traits with my loved one - we both love the color light-blue (sky colour), we both love Disney classic movies, we both love jazz (among other genres of music). I think there are more, but those came to my mind straight away upon reading your topic. Take care !
@SomeCowgirl (32255)
• United States
4 Jun 08
Thank you for your response to my discussion. Although I was not asking that exactly. I may have deceived the readers by my words, and I didn't mean to. Rather, I should say confused the readers. By Traits I mean those physical things.
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@elitess (5071)
• Ipswich, England
4 Jun 08
Ow i get it now, the body similarities, well i think we have some of those too (i know when we make pasional love the facial expression on our faces look alike, but i am not saying more on that topic ) - no others seem to pop into my mind right now - probably because i just woke up 25 minutes ago
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@SomeCowgirl (32255)
• United States
5 Jun 08
I hope did not offend? I did not mean to in any way... I think that all couples react the same way when making love, they mimic their partners face.
• China
2 Jun 08
Hi, before we fell in love with each other, if seems nothing common between us. But later, everyone said we become too similar, such as, facial expression.
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@SomeCowgirl (32255)
• United States
3 Jun 08
Thanks for your response to me and I am glad that you too have found similar attributes.
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• Philippines
5 Jun 08
Many people close to us, say that me and my partner has the same nose and some features in the face, not to mention our weights, well almost ^_^
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@SomeCowgirl (32255)
• United States
5 Jun 08
My Fiance and I both have about the same weight as well. I never thought of that, thanks for your response!
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@xlinzixx (511)
2 Apr 08
me and my partner well i dont know how to word it lol but we think along the same lines about most things and agree with nearly everything we hardly ever have disagreements because of it which is great :)
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@kykidd (6818)
• United States
2 Apr 08
I think we both have the same response to life's situations. It seems like we react in the same way and we have the same ambitions. That's probably why we ended up together after being friends for 3 years.
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