Where life throws something at us.. nothing goes as we had planned..
By jeanniemay
@jeanniemay (1798)
Philippines
April 3, 2008 12:35am CST
[i]What happens in the moment where life throws something at us, or nothing goes as we had planned? We know what happens. Instant negativity! We become disgruntled. Unhappiness over what is unwanted ruins the day. Why? Because now we're resisting the event, wanting nothing to do with it. And how many possibilities do we have in such moments when we resist life like this? None . . . except to slowly grow more and more negative. - Guy
But have you ever had a moment where -- right in the middle of what seemed like a bad dream -- you experienced an instant of awakening? Where suddenly you realize there is more than one way to look at this event? That you don't have to just look at it through your regret, or your resentment, or your despair over the loss of something?[/i]
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@plumwish07 (4057)
• Indonesia
3 Apr 08
be disgrunted, unhappy and thinking more negative things is normal happened when our life goes as like we never expected before. but thats a life. the unique and mystery of life that none knows how it would be
depend on my experience, when i was really down with happened in my life, i tend to be alone and thinking over about whats goin on. what the caused and the effect. those kind thing bring me in depth thinking until i found something which awakening me from the situation.
so in my opinion, most of time, although life doesn't go as like you expect, when you able to accept and understand how could it happened in your self, then you would find something that you never expected before
depend on my experience, when i was really down with happened in my life, i tend to be alone and thinking over about whats goin on. what the caused and the effect. those kind thing bring me in depth thinking until i found something which awakening me from the situation.
so in my opinion, most of time, although life doesn't go as like you expect, when you able to accept and understand how could it happened in your self, then you would find something that you never expected before 1 person likes this
@plumwish07 (4057)
• Indonesia
9 Apr 08
many thanks for awarded my response within your discussion dear. i really appreciate it
