should you take your partner's anger lashing on you!!

If you can you walk away. when one is angry they need to walk away and calm down before they say or do anything...and then person who is on the receiving end should walk away. But if you're talking about him hitting you then that's a whole different piece of cake all together!!

Quite interesting question!! The best course of action in this, I adopt is, not to enter into an argument with my partner. Because if I also start shouting and lose my temper, it will be great mess and the issue will not get sorted. It is better...that I should listen to her grievance patiently and silently, before coming out with my opinion in my defence. Anger is a natural emotion and every one has a right to express his/her anger, but I think the thing which is to kept in mind while getting angry is.....whether the issue is 'so important' that it can be pointed out without showing anger. One great man has said - "Words are your slave, till you do not speak those words, and you are slave of your words, once you have spoken them". So we should be very careful, while expressing our anger.

No this is not on I think people in general should take a step back now and then and look at themselves. It is not right to attack especially those that you love and supposedly care for just because or to release some frustration. Everyone has feelings.

I dont think its right for your partner to lash out on you, you just dont do that to people you care about. I'd support my partner in trying to help with whatever is making him/her angry but wouldnt put up with that

Well, when he's really angry, I have that urge to keep answering back everything he says. But I figured it will never end. I would still be in love with him. So I would just be somewhere he can't hear or see. When he calms down, he would look for me, apologize and explain, and we would talk things over, and well, we're ok again.