Do you consider your husband your child?

@SomeCowgirl (32191)
United States
April 3, 2008 9:42am CST
First off, this is in no way intended to offend the men. Just a simple question asked of the ladies for a simple answer. Do you consider you husband/fiance/bf to be your child? If so, why?
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@vijigopi (991)
• United States
3 Apr 08
Rarely, yes and usually, no. But with me, its usually the other way round. When he wants me to 'mother' him, then he will snuggle up to me, and act like a child and if I give him the 'what are you doing, you are a man' look, then he'll say, 'I am your first child.' And then, I just laugh and treat him like a child for a few minutes. If my kids are around, it ends up like a competition of who can snuggle up to me the most, and I most probably will run away from the room cos I don't want to end up as a squash jam
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@heart143 (1202)
• Philippines
3 Apr 08
No, I don't consider my husband as my child because he is a very serious and responsible man. I think it is him who "babies" me. He likes to pamper me with praises and gifts and is very giving to me. He is such a nice husband...I couldn't ask for more .
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
5 Apr 08
My fiance can be the exact same way but he does have his moments where he wishes to be pampered. I find it very cute and charming. I really just can't resist it.
@Bev1986 (1425)
• United States
3 Apr 08
No, I agree with Sassy.... sometimes he may act like a child, but do I consider him my child? No. He's a grown man and I do not mother him...
• Australia
5 Apr 08
Exactly!
@biwasaki (1745)
• United States
5 Apr 08
Yes. He's a huge, overgrown child. I am responsible for feeding him, dressing him, and making sure that he eats a good meal. Of course, there are times when I go on strike and he has to fend for himself. But most times this is the trade off because he works and I get to be a stay-at-home mom (which I love). Thank goodness I don't need to drive him everywhere too, that would make me crazy! *LoL* I'm joking...sorta...he is a grown man and I love him dearly, but sometimes I wonder if he would make it on his own.
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
5 Apr 08
They did not listen... Oops. :)
• Australia
3 Apr 08
Um, noooo LOL... Although, sometimes he can act like one bit for the most part, no I don't LOL...
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
5 Apr 08
Honestly, everyone can act like a child but it seems the ones that get accused of it the most are the men!
@flowerchilde (12529)
• United States
3 Apr 08
..no... but I learned early on that I didn't want to be the 'boss' or even compete to be the 'boss' - which I see lots of couples fall into.. My husband can be kind of lay back, so if I wanted to run the show, I could've for quite a while.. til he wandered off somewhere else where he could be a 'man'.. I decided to be even more lay back than he is.. but we seem to come up pretty even and are a good team.. I look to him in some things, and he looks to me in some things.. But I never try to tell him what to do, or not do. Maybe part of it is my age too.. more and more I find I want less and less to be "in control" (an illusion at best anyway).. and prefer to kind of go with the flow in life for the most part, except for my own goals and ambitions of course..
@dandj929 (423)
• United States
3 Apr 08
I also agree with the above posts. Sometimes he certainly acts like a child and sometimes I joke and say that I have two children I don't treat him like a child and I don't "baby" him. I think that if I did "baby" him it would be a big mistake and he's expect it all the time so I certainly won't be starting that.
@viewpoint (137)
• Philippines
3 Apr 08
Sometimes he acts childish, like one of my kids. But I don't consider him as my child. For me he's the man of the house, and I give him that respect even when he acts childish every now and then.