virginity! does it really matter to a relationship?

I think that it does... there should be that one special thing that you give to your bride/groom on your wedding night and that should be your virginity. Thanks Zelo

I in a way see the view of the guy. Would you want to marry a women could possibly have cheated on someone before. If she is a virgin than i doubt she would have. I am not in any way trying to be prejudice.

in my herritage and society, yes its necessary to have virginity till get married. i come from eastern culture which some of us still have principal that virginity is kind of dignity of woman which should take care very well. but due to some case, might be caused of rape or similiar like that, virginity would not consider as the main thing but still its hard to deal with the reason of loosing virginity due to those reason in my place

I do not know what men think about it, but in my opinion a woman should remain a virgin untill marriage. Physical relationship is not entirely physical. It has an emotional angle also and that remains with the woman throughout her life.

Hello dear julyteen. Well, it seems to be a very common topic among people in a relationship. But nowadays it is not that easy to have always some significant other still in her or his virginity before they get married. I think that if a woman loses her virginity, it is not her fault. The man is to be responsible for it...

Depends on how strong the bond is. And also our own virginity' ( albeit male virginity).

If my partner were more concerned about the status of my hymen than about me as a person,I wouldn't want to date him. A healthy, adult woman is going to have had adult relationships, just like you would expect from any man.