Do you forgive or hold grudges?

@chance00 (3332)
United States
October 31, 2006 2:31pm CST
I am a forgiver!!
23 responses
• United States
31 Oct 06
forget - forget
if i get a chance to forgive then i will but i never forget.
@chance00 (3332)
• United States
31 Oct 06
I think that is most women.I will forgive but boy I don't forget anything!!
@kuntal (15)
• China
1 Nov 06
i have a grudge and its driving me crazy! sometimes the person you love the most can ruin your life and can become the person you hate the most...
@Tanya8 (1734)
• Canada
1 Nov 06
I'm a forgiver too.
@manzician (4730)
• India
1 Nov 06
smile - smile
i like to forgive...
@marciascott (25550)
• United States
1 Nov 06
I'm like you I forgive I can't hold grudges to long it's not in me!
• United States
1 Nov 06
I think it honestly depends on what the person did, and if they deserve another chance. For example, I would probally never forgive someone who would cheat on me, yet if it was a simple mistake or they forgot something like an anniversary, then yes i'd forgive, Theyd just have to make up for it ;)
• United States
1 Nov 06
i do a little of both guess it just depends on the situtaion
@cobb1121 (126)
• United States
1 Nov 06
It depends on what was done. But I hold on then eventually let go. Or else it would eat me up inside.
• Australia
1 Nov 06
i tend to hold grudges
• United States
1 Nov 06
If it's a small thing, sure, I forgive, but if it's something big, it's harder for me to do that. BUT I do want to work on that. I need to learn to forgive. Holding grudges is not a Christian way of life.
@Nahara (1673)
• Israel
31 Oct 06
I don't know what I am, I mean I forgive but don't forget, so I hope this doesn't make me a horrible person
@jray721 (1969)
• United States
31 Oct 06
it a;; depends what the person did to me. i can usually forgive but will always have what they did in the back of my mind.
@flte74 (876)
• United States
31 Oct 06
I have to admit, I hold grudges. But I have been working on it and I think I am making progress, I don't stay mad for very long anymore and I shrug things off more so than I used to.
@rachelynn (428)
• United States
31 Oct 06
I'm a forgiver. I'll be honest sometimes it takes me awhile to forgive, but I believe that forgiveness is the best route to take. Holding grudges only hurts you.
• Australia
31 Oct 06
cradle of filth - cradle of filth
well depends......u should be more specific
@rhane2005 (174)
• United States
31 Oct 06
It depends on the situation, if it was something little, I'll usually forgive, but if it was something that really hurt me or someone else I love, I hold grudges.
@Duvessa (913)
• United States
31 Oct 06
I try to forgive but it depends on the situation. Sometimes I say I've forgiven someone only to realize that I really haven't, like when they hurt me again I'll throw te past back up in teir face. I'm such a b^tch :-/
@micheller (1365)
• United States
31 Oct 06
depends on the sit... but you should always forgive because if you don't yur jus letting the person have control over you.
@shellyrios (1212)
• United States
31 Oct 06
I use to hold grudges when I was younger in my late teens to early 20's, but I learned to become more forgiving, and feel way better about it. So now I consider myself a forgiver.....
• India
31 Oct 06
i've never held a grudge for more than 2 days after which i even tend to forget why i was upset....i forgive too easily...people tend to take me for a ride.