Does boys and books go hand in hand

Of course relaxation and breaks are crucial - you don't have to study 100% of the time; you'd go nuts. But every aspect of a relationship from the good to the bad will have an impact on your other facets of life - from your friendships to even your relationship with your parents. It depends on both the guy you date, how you adjust and what happens along the way. Some of my friends started when they were in their teens, childhood sweethearts and all, and they got married in their late 20s. Others started way longer. I just feel that we shouldn't tell people that they OUGHT to get married and start a family at a certain age because 1) that's how it is and 2) you're getting older. It's easier said that done if you come from a culture that doesn't thrive on arranged marriages - marriage is a personal lifetime commitment more than a social obligation (sorry but I don't get married because of other people) and so you don't just simply want to settle for anyone. One person told me that marriage happens when two things occur at the SAME time - the right guy and the right time. If either one is out of the picture, then people just don't get married...unless of course you're into arranged marriages. Yes, people who have children later (not necessarily marry later) can run into pregnancy problems more than people who have kids earlier BUT it doesn't mean that it's a 100% guarentee that you'll get kids with Down. My uncles were born when my aunt was in her late 30s and early 40s, I have friends who have kids in their late 30s/40s...my mother herself had me when she was 35. And I do know people who have found love at an older age (40, 50, 60)... Just my personal opinion and experience there on the thread... :)

hey meiteoh, i too thought that friendship with boys automatically lead to relationships lol:) however i did turned down alot of potential relationships,that i sometimes think that i probably turned down the real thing , whats done is done. i have remained focus on my academics, and even though i may be sucessful in it i get bored i personally want something new and excited in my life. i know my parents wants the best for me,but sometimes they could be so overbearing they confuse me alot ,i hate being disobedient to them , i hate hurting their feelings, i try to please them, but the time is coming when i have to stop thinking about what they want and start asking myself what i want. Meiteoh i appreciate your comment very much , and i understand that exams,assignments,classes,a soical life and the boyfriend is difficult. presently i am working and studying at the same time and i will tell it is very tiring, i go out with my friends once in a while , i am definitely not ready for marriage , and when ever someone talk about marriage to me it goes through one ear and comes out the next :). it's nice to hear that your life turned out so nicely knowing that you work so hard to reach where you are today. i am hoping that if i do meet some one that he'll be indulge in some studies lol :) thanks again for your time and comments :)

thank you for view , i appreciate it