Which will you choose? Daughter or Son? Why?
By ayessa
@ayessa (1583)
Philippines
8 responses
@nice030481 (1109)
• Philippines
8 Apr 08
i want a daughter, it is because i have now a son. i am expected to deliver my second baby on september , and i wish it could be a girl, so that i can have 1 boy and 1 girl, after this i have to make family planning, so that i can be able to prepare for the future of my childred.

@madlees (1377)
• India
16 Apr 08
Congrats Nice. It is very nice to have a son and asking for a daughter. Let GOD bless you with a baby girl. I too was like that, have two kids of one each and finished with the second baby but I was willing to finish even if the second one was also a boy. I wanted to take care of my two kids and save for them.. God gave me a daughter and I do hope that you also get.

@enola1692 (3323)
• United States
5 Apr 08
Well I was told I could not have a child because of being hit by a forklift messed up my insides so when I did get preg I just hoped for a child an ended up with 2 daughters an I wouldnt change what a miricle I got
1 person likes this
@psyche49f (2502)
• Philippines
16 Apr 08
If given the chance, mine would be a daughter, although a son was what we wanted after our first child, a girl. But all things equal, I'd have a daughter since a daughter is sweet and is easier to dress up, is gentler, more diligent, more responsible, and above all, would make a good shopping partner, he, he, he. You know, both my son and husband hate to go with me especially if I'm scouting for a new pair of shoes or dress. But my daughter keeps me very good company. In fact, just this afternoon, we went out to buy a rice dispenser, but ended up buying a pair of shoes for each one of us, plus a skirt for my daughter. It was a good bonding for us...my son was dismayed when he found out we missed the rice dispenser, but never the new pair of shoes...LOL!
@mark17779 (667)
•
5 Apr 08
Aslong as my child was born healthy and had all the right things in the right places I really would not mind, but for the sake of the disscusion. Being a male I would choose a son over a daughter as you stand a better chance of bonding as you can do many more things together than you could if you a daughter.
1 person likes this
@mickeydavis (335)
• Singapore
5 Apr 08
If given the chance, I will accept any, daughter or son. It doesn't matter. Any will do because both is a blessing already. Just try to remember the term equality, be it boy or girl, be proud. In this society, if we ask this type of question, it is like, we don't respect the other one.
@ayessa (1583)
• Philippines
16 Apr 08
It is your opinion and I respect that but we have to accept that some people have preferences on havin a child. That some may wanted to have a girl first or a boy instead. Although I agree with you that having a child is really a blessing from heaven.
Have a nice day!
@weiyi5151 (119)
• China
16 Apr 08
i will choose the son.because that's the traditional in my hometown. people like son much better than girl.
because the girl will go out from house when she get married.whereas boy still stay at home when he get married.
that's the differents and also that's the traditional.
@keep_onwatch (2680)
• India
16 Apr 08
I already have a son, so this time i wud like 2 havea daughter, just so that i cud know, raising up both. Ppl say its different raising noyz n gurls..
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
10 Apr 08
when my wife was still pregnant it was okay for me if it is a girl or boy. the important thing for me here is the health of the baby. now that baby is two years old already. i got a son and his picture appears as my avatar.









