share your advice..

Philippines
April 6, 2008 7:04am CST
I had this friend who shared a story to me and asked for an advice. This is her story: My friend has a long-time boyfriend they've been boyfriends for almost 8 years now. And she said she's pretty sure he's the one she wanted to be with for the rest of her life. Its just that a very big problem came...My friend was invited to a party of which she got too drunk...she doesn't know what had happen but when she woke up..she found herself naked lying beside her ex-boyfriend who happen to be there in the party also...She said, her ex-bf ask sorry and promise to accept the responsibility, he even said that he still love my friend...but ofcourse she didn't accept it, instead she said, she hated him so much for doing it... so my friend went to me and ask for an advice to what she should do, is she going to tell her boyfriend about it as early as now or keep it. my answer is: she should tell her boyfriend about it, if whatever the outcome maybe she must accept the consequences of her action. How about you? Can you share your piece of advice to her?
2 responses
6 Apr 08
my advice is she should tell her bf bcz a bf for 8 years will understand your frnd
@Phlamingho (7825)
• Denmark
6 Apr 08
I think she should tell her boyfriend about it. If she keeps it to herself it's just going to eat her up inside. Her boyfrined will sense that something is wrong anyway, just as well get it out there and deal with it. If they've been together for 8 years, then I'm pretty sure they can find a way to work past this. Best of luck to her :)