How does it feel to be a mistress?

@ayessa (1586)
Philippines
April 8, 2008 1:37am CST
Is there anyone who became a mistress here? How does it feel? How did you handle the situation? Was it worth fighting for?
2 responses
@gabrielle47 (1221)
• Philippines
8 Apr 08
Hi Ayessa. Welcome to myLot. Well as we have heard from most stories, it isnt nice and immoral to be a mistress in some society but in some its tolerated. I have never been a mistress but I had a relationship with a guy only in the net and he lied to me that he was married. When he finally confessed he had a family, sure it was so painful to know the trust coz I have learned to love the person. But when I know all that he had 3 children and a wife, that all changed my prospective and decided not to go on with the relationship as I could not bear wrecking a home and destroying the future of those kids. Also, I could not bear to have a share of my love with someone else as I know he will still go back to his family. Until now we have not met in reality and dont want anymore as it may just disrupt everything. Its not worth fighting for as you will only be second place and in all legality, your battle is lost. He may love you but is it worth all the pain in all those years or better to love another who will give all the attention to you? I chose the latter and Im much happier now finding new love.
@ayessa (1586)
• Philippines
9 Apr 08
Thanks for the welcome! Good for you that the guy you had a relationship before confessed to you even before you've fallen deeply inlove to him. Godbless! Continue finding you happiness!
• United States
8 Apr 08
are u serious? U want some chick to answer this? Or are you just lookin for some points? I find this question totally odd.........But I will bare with you. Sure, if it is someone you care about then it is worth fighting for. How it feels......hmmmmmm, prolly like you are not important enough, you don't mean enough to this person, and you prolly get left broken hearted in the end. Because they already have their own family and loved ones.........rightidk....
@ayessa (1586)
• Philippines
9 Apr 08
I know that some may say or react the way you did when i posted this discussion. But I am really serious to ask this cause I wanted to gather points and experiences from other woman. I noticed that more woman are getting engage in this kind of relationship and I wanted to know what they had gotten.