Are single? Do you enjoy being one?

Philippines
April 8, 2008 1:45am CST
If you have a choice right now, do you like being single or prefer to be married/committed to someone?
11 responses
@rexiemay (401)
• Philippines
22 Apr 08
hi. i enjoy being single right now because i can focus on myself more and my studies. but given an opportunity, i still want to be committed to someone i love because i deem that it makes me happy to share my everyday walks in life to someone who cares. i believe that there is constant longing in me to have someone special to spend the days ahead of me. but im sure that if i dont have that one special person right now, i can still be happy because i have lots of friends and supportive family. thank you.
• Philippines
20 Apr 08
If I have a choice i would like to be married with with my first & last love i think.... That is if i have a choice... but i dont have...
@tigerdragon (4297)
• Philippines
17 Apr 08
i am in a relationship right now and i am very happy and i am looking forward to marrying her but before this i was happy being single because it takes a better person to be happy even if he is alone and having a companion with him would be a bonus in one's life. being alone does not mean one is lonely.just be the right person and the right person will be attracted to you.
@kuting (885)
• Philippines
8 Apr 08
this time at my age, i'd rather be married to a guy i love and have a happy family. i've experienced being single, being in a relationship and being cynical on such matters on a point in my life. had experience being inlove and heart aches that comes along with it. i think im ready to settle down and be hands on on taking care of my partner and our would be kids.
@dianne17k (587)
• Philippines
16 Apr 08
April 4, 2008 marked my fifth year being single. Sometimes, it gets to me and I'd get depressed and start questioning why can't anyone find me attractive enough? Lately, I've been thinking about it again and I see singlehood in a different light. I figured that there are a lot of things to be happy about in being single. Here are some: 1. I don't need to report about my whereabouts to anyone 2. I have total control over my time 3. I get to spend more time with my friends 4. I get to do whatever I want 5. No more crying over silly fights I know I should be happy being single but there are still times I'd wish I had someone special in my life; someone I could go on wacky adventures and fight with over the little things. Oh well... that's life.
@Esoteric1 (863)
• Canada
9 Apr 08
well I am 31 and single, I've been single for about 3-4 years now well i did have two short relationships in that time no more than 2 months each. however i have had 2 consecutive 7 year relationships both failed obviously :P as I am single but the 1st one gave me my beautiful son he is 12 now. for the most part i miss having that special someone to spend my time and affection with but i don not miss the bad parts like fighting arguing etc so right now i'd rather be single than have drama but i'd rather have a wife than a girlfriend.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
8 Apr 08
at present I am single. very frankly sopeaking i like his status. i can enjoy my freedom. i can enjoy life without giving answer to ohers.
@madlees (1377)
• India
8 Apr 08
No I am not. I have ben married for 31 years and I am happy with my life as it is. I would not want to have a single life now and I can not even think about it. I love my husband and cannot think of a day without him. All the best
• China
8 Apr 08
This is a interesting question.Being single will make you have more time to do what you like doing: reading,traveling,etc.Many things you want to do. But you maybe lose many opportunities doing other interesting thing.For example,shopping with wife or husband,playing game with your baby.So I think this question is too hard to reply.
• Philippines
8 Apr 08
Yes. Im single but in a relationship. Its been one year since I started working and it really feels great to be single when you have the money, you know. You can choose whatever career you like. You can totally decide bout everything. You never have to worry about kids and other things. All you have to do is think of yourself. But i do know, that sometimes single can also be lonely at times. But for me, its best to be single.
@arjun999 (1004)
• India
8 Apr 08
I guess right now i prefer to be single as i am busy having a lot of studying to do.