What makes a good wife?

China
April 8, 2008 5:49am CST
So far, I have been tring to find a good girl as my girlfriend and future wife. After five break-ups, I thought that whether a girl would be a good wife or not depends on whether she viewed family as the most important part of her life. Base on this perspective, I started my sixth romantic story with a girl who like to do housework helping her parents, indeed she is a good daughter. Moreover, she enjoyd to look after her aunt's baby as if the infant was her own child, so I could imagine that she would be a good mother when she had babys. What I am not sure is whether she will be a good wife. I am her first boyfriend and we have enjoyd each other in the way that couples would do at nights of honeymoon. So I suppose that she must love me as much as I love her. I have never shouted at her since we know each ohter. I always said sorry to her first after everytime quarrel occurd. but she never apologized to me even if it's her mistake. When we chat online this noon, I told her something from bottom of my heart, not related to our relationship but to my deep inside personality, I hoped she could understand me and said something comforting my sorrow, But she just said "I am so disgusted with that kind of person like you, go away!" My heart was badly hurted once more! Whether she will be a good wife, I doubt about it now.
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@MissGia (955)
• United States
16 May 08
You shouldnt look too deeply into those thing "will she be a good mom" "will she be a good wife" you just have to let things happen as they do, and let your eyes see for yourself. Pretty much ALLLLL relationships are heaven at the beginning, and if 2 aren't meant to be it just doesnt work out. Keep looking Dionysus, you'll find your love one day.
• Philippines
16 May 08
if you want to have a good wife and a family, first you have to start with your own self. You have to be a good friend of God and do what his will. then ask him about that and i can assure you that he will give you a good wife and family along with your salvation.
@taface412 (3175)
• United States
15 May 08
A good wife is not soley made by someone who can cook, clean, and nuture a family. Those are definite pluses in any relationship, but a god wife (or husband, or anything for that matter) is made by a person who is the right fit. How old is she? How old are you for that matter?