Ex boyfriend might have moved an hour and a 1/2 away. HELP PLEASE

United States
April 8, 2008 5:54pm CST
This is so sad. I love my ex boyfriend so much & we kinda broke up . We were going together for 1 year & 1 /2 and we broke up in feb. If you've read any of my other discussions i've posted here on Mylot then you'll know exactly the whole situation with the two of us ! Anyways, i talked to him last Tuesday for a good hour nd He didn't tell me anything about him moving to Wilmington Nc anytime soon (mind you i live in Raleigh Nc & Wilmington is about an hour and a half away) anyways, Wilmington is where he is from . Im just shocked ! i tryed to call him all weekend, his phone goes directly to voice mail & i called his house phone , the number isn't diconnected !!!!!! I called his school & the said he hadn't been there ! This is crazy & its driving me to drain ! His friend that live behind me sent me a message on Myspace saying " he think Mark & his family moved back to WIlmington" i replyed to him & he hadn't replyed yet . I replyed nd asked him what made him think that ! What do you think of this ? any ways you can help me ? im going through a mental break down & its killing me half way to death ! Im so lost i coudlnt even sleep last night without crying !!!
2 responses
@subha12 (18452)
• India
9 Apr 08
i think although you broke up, you are really not able to get away with the emotions. thus you are feeling so, just calm down. may be you are feeling too desparate to meet him. take time and let him cool down too. may be he is feeling the same or may be now wants to keep away from you. don't you have any friend there in his city? send a letter note by them to him saying how you are missing him.
@babykeka80 (2089)
• United States
9 Apr 08
I understand that it is hard but an hour and a half really isnt that far away. You could see each other frequently if you both chose to do so. Maybe the space will be good for the two of you. Sometimes it takes time away in order to realize how much someone means to you. Absence makes the hard grow fonder or on the other hand you can go with out of sight out of mind. I know its hard now but time heals all wounds.