Are you comfortable with cam to cam?

@gxnfly (1147)
China
April 8, 2008 10:31pm CST
I have some online friends of MSN.Some of them want to see the pics of me,so I send them everytime they ask,I am OK with it.But I don't have a camera,so I want to chat over the micophone.Some of them just don't chat with me anymore as soon as they know that I don't have a camera.I asked why,they said,they only wanted cam to cam.I don't feel good about it.I don't why I have to show my face to them.They just want to chat with hot girls?I think that's superficial. What do you think?Do you just chat with hot girls online?Do you just want to chat cam to cam?If somebody ask for your picture,or want to cam to cam,are you comfortable with that?
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7 responses
@winterose (39897)
• Canada
10 Apr 08
don't waste your time on people like that they do really want a friendship they want somebody to sleep with.
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• India
3 Nov 08
Are you looking for someone to sleep with? You are in the wrong place
• Sri Lanka
9 Apr 08
those people are just losers without girlfriends. If they ask to chat to you using a cam on the first chat itself that just shows they are desperate. But if you known them for a long time, they might want to know you better in a way like a face to face conversation. If you turn that down they should be ok with it, if they are not desperate!
@faith210 (11233)
• Philippines
13 Mar 09
Hi gxnfly! I really don't chat with the cam turned on. There were times that I do however because my relatives would request that I do. It is understandable since it has been a long time that we have seen each other in person for they are living abroad and we can get to see each other on cam only. But with friends that I have just met on the internet, I don't think I will be comfortable but if we have been friends for so long, I think it will be just fine. Take care and blessings to you! lovelots..faith
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• Malaysia
1 May 08
actually no, i'm not comfortable using my web cam at all haha. my laptop at home has a built in camera and if those that i'm talking to request to see me on my webcam or something i'd decline. i dont think i look that presentable when at home haha!
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@jason_co (408)
• Philippines
13 Apr 08
No because I dont people to see me. Im quite a shy person. But if the one that I am chatting to is a close friend of mine, I am comfortable with a cam to cam conversation.
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@longbangod (1791)
• Philippines
10 Apr 08
If I am chatting with my kids and my family, I am very comfortable with cam to cam. But if im chatting with someone else, I prefer to view them than view me instead. IN your case, maybe those people think you might be willing to do more things with them over your cam, you know what I mean. So better keep youself away from thse people. Though if those people you are chatting with are your good friends, theres no problem with this cam to cam thing.
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@ajithlal (14614)
• India
23 Mar 09
I am comfortable with cam to cam with only people whom I had chatted already and had become friends with. I only use cam with people whom I know and is very uncomfortable to cam with strangers. I think it is common for people to ask for cam. I think most people now a days ask for cam or picture either they want to do hot chat or because they want to know the people.