How do you know that the person really in love with you
By zuyoji
@zuyoji (82)
Singapore
April 9, 2008 1:07am CST
Hi mylot guys~
I sometime wonder, how do you know that the person who said "i'm in love with you , can we be together" or "let's start a relationship" REALLY honestly in love with you?
What if, he or she is just joking.
They want to play a trick on you or ...
After getting you, they will dump you and teased on you as you are so naive to believe their words.
Sometimes i am quite afraid that i may meet up to this kind of person. How can i differentiate it?
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5 responses
@madlees (1377)
• India
9 Apr 08
Dont ever accept any one on their face value. You will know if that person really loves you. You can find that out easily. You can watch for all the signs. He will give you enough respect for your feelings, would like to know about you more and also share everything, about his life, worries and happiness etc.
He can understand your moods and accept them. He'll be moreunderstanding and help you with your problems. This sort of a person will not ask you for arelationsip right away, he'll take a long timeto come out with that. He is the good husband material. You can believe him and go right ahead. I am 54 now and I have seen a lot in real life.So you can believe me when I say this. All the best
@zuyoji (82)
• Singapore
10 Apr 08
HOw to check out through their sign? Sometimes, he will tease or make fun of you, making you angry and yet sometimes comfort you and even play with you.
Is this the way they treated the girl they like?
Or is it a show of way how they treat their normal friends.
Sometimes, it is so confusing about this matter.
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@madlees (1377)
• India
10 Apr 08
Yes those are signs of liking a person. Some get very close but still they like teasing and then comforting you when you get upset. Does he worry about you and what happens to you? If something happens to you is he there for you? Has he enough respect for you. Does he make fun of you in front of others? then he has no respect for you. Think about all these...
@bumbleflies (48)
• United States
18 Apr 08
This is something you will know from your heart without a single doubt. This person will think of you as much as you do them. Maybe more. That person will light up whether in person or on the phone. You can hear it in their voice if your on the phone. I found the love of my life at 22. I had already been married & divorced with a 4 year old soon. I met him and knew instantly. We did not go out for months. He confessed to feeling the same later. Trust me you will KNOW.. My 2nd date I started my period,he left his home to go to the store to get me what I ask for plus he brought back chocalate and pamprin and a rose.
@zuyoji (82)
• Singapore
18 Apr 08
I see...
However, i got doubts in these kind of doubts as from now i just realised. I got a barrier. I think, it is because of some sort of incident that i will always have doubts in having relationship.
However, it is lucky of you to find your next partner. I'm so happy for you!
@bumbleflies (48)
• United States
18 Apr 08
Usually you will find the love you are wanting when you are not looking. Once you quit trying to find the right one,then You will. I have heard that my whole life. I was divorced for about year and a half. I was dating but I honestly was just having a good time .Really did not want anything serious. When it happens you can't turn away,it will be like you never experienced. You will think you have loved until you meet this person. Hey it may be tommorow or 10 years,but you will see.You may then realize the others was just there to help you along the way to discover you and your needs. Good luck in your search !
@Wickedself (720)
•
9 Apr 08
I am never able to tell if the other person loves me or not, And it is really confusing if you are interested in them.
@busta1 (1026)
• United States
9 Apr 08
i know tell when someone loves me i think " its when that person would do anything for you even if they are not comfortable with what it maybe they dont question you why you want them to do that certain thing....i can tell my girl love's me beacuse she only wants me and no one else im the only person in her world that makes her happy and she lets me know this every day i prove to her everyday that i love her by the things i do for her and she dose the same to me...... well thats all i have to say about that ..
@jesbellaine (4139)
• Philippines
18 Apr 08
With your question, I rely on my feelings. If I feel that he loves me then I know that he truly loves me. I can tell if the person really loves me if he really show that he cares and tries to supports me on what I do but ofcourse, we can really be 100% sure unless we really ask the other person... sometimes, love is a tricky thing.. :)
