Have you ever kept a nasty voice mail, text or email for any reason?

United States
April 9, 2008 7:02am CST
I delete everything as soon as I listen to it but back in January my brother left a very nasty message on my landline voice mail that I will never delete. I also have an email from him saying just about the same things that I won't delete either. My reason for keeping these horrible messages is that sometimes I think about him and feel bad that things have turned out the way they have (very long story)and feel like I want to call him. So, when I start feeling this way I listen to the voice message or read the email and it all comes back to me that he's not worth it and I'm better off without him in my life. If anyone read my discussion about what he did to me about Christmas dinner at my Mom's then you can see the type of person he is. He called me, my kids, my sister and her kids the "C" word and said a lot of other needlessly hurtful things. To be honest I expected this to happen and he proved me right. Have you ever kept a nasty message, note, email or anything along these lines that someone sent to you? If you did what was your reason for doing it?
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@gemini_rose (16264)
9 Apr 08
I have never had any nasty voice mails, but once I had a text message, it came through on my birthday nearly 2 years ago and I will never forget it as long as I live, it said "your husband is having an affair" that was it nothing else. Now at that time I already had my suspicions and I turned to him and asked him if it was true, but he denied it. I phoned the number, text the number asking them to tell me more but no one would and I kept the message for a while after that. But with no one offering me anymore information I thought that it was just a sick joke and just deleted it.
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• United States
9 Apr 08
That definitely sounds like it was a sick joke. I would have deleted that in a minute!
@gemini_rose (16264)
9 Apr 08
Unfortunately it was not, that is why I kept it, I just could not prove it!
9 Apr 08
I have actually kept a couple of messages from my Mother, both of these messages are a tirade of abuse. they serve as a reminder to me that I can't trust her anymore and although I should simply delete them and get on with my life, I just can't. I guess I should delete these messages and move on with my life. Perhaps it would be a good thing to do.
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• United States
9 Apr 08
Although it's sad I'm happy to see I'm not alone. There are probably times when you wish things could be different between you and your Mom but when you listen to the messages you realize how things really are and what would happen if you tried to get back into her life.
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
10 Apr 08
He called me, my kids, my sister and her kids the "C" word and said a lot of other needlessly hurtful things OH HELL NO! ARE YOU KIDDING ME?!?! man I would have knocked the everloving crap out of my brother (or anyone) who had the b@lls to call me that and to call my daughter that?!? i would tear him UP! To answer your question...Yes I have kept emails, PMs etc that were less than kind or harrassing..You never know when you'll need them for proof or like in your case a reminder of why you made a specific decision etc ya know... UGH I'm so sorry you went through all that...I dont remember the discussion about Xmas but it doesnt matter..ppl like that in general can be hurtful and hard to deal with but when its your family doing it, that puts a whole new spin on things..
@kezabelle (2974)
9 Apr 08
No you cant live in the past, have nothing more to do with him if thats what you want but dont live in the past always reminding yourself about it, it is not healthy I dont think. Sometimes family do bad things if you can its worth it to try and work through it but if you really cant then you have to move on and be happy not keep tormenting yourself with something someone else has done to you
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• United States
9 Apr 08
At this point I don't see it as torment but as a reminder of the type of person my brother really is. I've always known it but feel like now I have proof even if it's just for myself. It's hard for me to realize that a sibling could say the things he did.