Grrrrrrrr what a day! Anyone have some good advice?
By Bella75
@nixxi76 (3191)
Canada
April 9, 2008 10:30am CST
About a month or so ago I vented her on mylot about being played as a middle man between so called friends. Well I'm sort of seeking for some kind of advice about what to do.
I thought about letting it rest but I feel like it's all backfiring in my face.
These two so called friends I'll just call one the cheater and the other one the follower because I don't want to really mention their names.
Last fall the follower and I had a falling out with the cheater and to make a long story short they ended up becoming friends again and I ended up being the bad guy according to them because the follower and I agreed that the cheater was wrong by cheating on her husband. We would all get together and we all knew what she was doing to her husband except for him. It was very uncomfortable to be sitting in the same room with both of them, knowing they were both friends of ours. Lately, I've noticed that the cheater's and my mutual friends seems to be siding with her and not me. Now I feel like telling her husband about all of the cheating she's been doing. I'm just not sure how to break it to him. I'm threw with our friendship as I've learned that she has no idea what loyalty to friendship is.. to anyone. I'm so ticked off right now and hurt that I want her to feel the same if not worse than I do.
Can someone give me some advice on what to do? Should I inform her husband that she's been cheating? Should I let it rest?
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3 responses
@weiyi5151 (119)
• China
17 Apr 08
you don't have to think so much thing.. don't worry about that much... take it easy ,everything will be worked out.
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@nixxi76 (3191)
• Canada
17 Apr 08
Hello weiyi,
When I wrote this discussion I was pretty angry but I'm much better now. I still do not talk to the cheater or follower and I don't miss them either! Thanks for your advice and you're right I"m pretty much waisting energy and time on these two which I am not going to do anymore
Thanks for your comment
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@darkmoni (34)
• United States
15 Apr 08
Well that is a hard one . Well in my point of view I think you should let it go, since she's no longer your friend . What im trying to say is its going to make you look bad .She could use that you guys are no longer friends to tell her husband that your just trying to give her a hard time. And it was just give you more problems. Dont worry what comes around goes around. She eventually get caught.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
17 Apr 08
I would let it drop so that you do not once again come off as the bad guy. You are through with her so do not let them push you into doing something that you might come to regret. being told your wife is cheating on you has to be a big upset for the husband and hes not going to be all that thankful in all probabilty.
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