Do you need to make noise to climax?

United States
April 9, 2008 6:57pm CST
This is directed to everyone, but know by nature I will get more women on this one lol. Here's the situation. I live with my grandmother and grandfather with my two children. I pay rent, and I have my own living space in the basement, but no doors. What I've done to kill the urge lately is to wait until that one day a week when I am in the house alone, invite my little male friend over, and get some rocks off right? Well schedule's kinda conflicted and "hump day" actually landed on a Monday this week. Grandad is home. Since grandad is disabled, he never comes downstairs, that's when we get the idea to just be quiet. Okay, fine. My little friend was hitting all the right spots, I had been trying to let loose for a minute, but it just wouldn't come to me, you know? I was right there at the threshold, but I was being held back. Why you ask? I wanted to let this man know how good he felt and I couldn't, not the way I like to. It took me an extra ten minutes of concentrating just to get it off for real. My man friend understood, and it was a good session, but I really want to tear him apart now, it just wasn't as good without the noise. I don't get it that often, as you see my situation, and I want the full experience whenever I can, complete with surround sound lmao! Anybody else out there like me? Or does noises of appreciation make a difference to you?
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10 responses
@p_vadla (1685)
• India
10 Apr 08
..sound is inevitable when the pleasure is unbearable..i think its not a choice..unless faked..
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• United States
10 Apr 08
Actually, it was the complete opposite of faked, more like stifled lol. It wasn't that I didn't want to make the noise, I couldn't. I couldn't risk my grandad discovering what I was doing in the basement.
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• United States
10 Apr 08
Not really. I am not scared of my Pop, as I call him, but I do have a respect for him. Its not wrong for me to do it in the house, but I feel it would be wrong for him to hear his granddaughter being pleasured in the house lol. Even though I am a grown woman, living in my grandparents house I am still somewhat of a kid. Since its their house, not mine, I give them certain respects. And, no, the reason I couldn't get off when I wanted was simply because I had to concentrate on not making noise, instead of being able to fully enjoy the experience.
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@p_vadla (1685)
• India
11 Apr 08
My point is..its your choice to do whatever you want to do. But once you concentrate on 'not making noises'..probably you are not concentrating on pleasure fully..OK, then something is better than having none..Isn't it ?
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• Bangladesh
10 Apr 08
i understand ur situation. u can meet out side of ur house.
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• United States
15 Apr 08
i just had to get on here and comment to this post sis! I guess maybe it is because we are sisters or something but i feel the same way. this is my situation. I am married and i live with my husband and i still cant make noise. my father in law lives with us. We are in a 1 bedroom apartment so we hear everything each other does. so with daddy in law is here i cant let my husband know how much i am enjoying him. i would really like to get away so we can have fun and go all out, but "money is funny and i hate the joke." So all in all sis we are very much the same and different. love ya!
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@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
10 Apr 08
I've never been a screamer myself LOL..I'm more physical in how I let them know they're doing it just right...Nails down their backs, claws in their butt cheeks, biting etc etc...With me a little violence says so much LOL
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• United States
23 Jul 08
Well as your baby sister i know what you are talking about, and i feel u shouldnt have put so much of your information on here. But to answer your question no you dont need to make noise to climax. i know it might sound weird coming from your little sister but like you was saying it takes longer and its doesnt feel as good but it is possible. like always i love you.
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• United States
24 Jul 08
Gul so what? First of all, you know I am a very open person and don't mind talking about things like this, whether it be with friends, family, or on the internet. Second, the main two people who I don't want knowing about this don't come on here and won't come across it, so to hell with what everyone else thinks!!! I love getting opinions about things on here, and if I want them, I'm going to post for it, no matter what.
@shontia08 (846)
• United States
24 Jul 08
get a room girl get a room lol. well i can't say because when i was staying at home and my friend tried to "get busy" i just couldn't follow through because i was scared the parents would find out (hear me). so we got a room. you are brave.
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• United States
25 Jul 08
It's not about being brave, its moreso having the mood and not being able to resolve it for waaaaaaay too long lmao. We just really started putting two and two together. No one in the house but me, my friend, and Pop. Pop knows he is here, but rarely comes to mess with us; let me rephrase that never comes to mess with us. He stays holed up in his room until about 3pm. So all we have to do is keep the noise down and bango! Mission accomplished. But not being able to make noise really took a special something out of the experience.
10 Apr 08
trust me a guy can tell in your facial expressions. I am not much of a noise maker unless I feel I have all the time in the world and no one is around for a mile...lol anyways I have done plenty quiet drills. I get off sometimes having the man put his hand over my mouth or buring my face in the sheets.
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@funnysis (2619)
• United States
10 Apr 08
I am not a noise maker when being intimate with my partner I like to just whisper in there ear and let them know by body movements and muscle tighting just how pleasured I am I have found that it is both very satisfying as well as quite and it is very personal and different I think that every couple has something that is just unique between them that they do.I wish you luck in your search but remember do what makes you and your partner happy Have a great day.
• United States
11 Apr 08
Aside from having to be quiet, we made sure that each one was thoroughly pleasured lol. Everyone has different quirks about what makes them feel good, and noise isn't for everyone. I just noticed that day that without the noise, its just not as good for me.
@ltmoon (1008)
• United States
10 Apr 08
Well ... there have been those times when "as quiet as possible" were some really hot whoopie making! Having to be quiet can be a real turn on. Sort of like doing it outdoors (or some other places) where you might get caught or be seen. As for normal love making (whatever is normal to you ) I like a bit of, shall we call it conversation, as we hump and pump. Serious screamers can actually be distracting, but a nice cresendo building up tot he finale is quite nice and desirable!
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• United States
15 Apr 08
well i made the mistake of adding a comment instead of responding, but i am going to say it again differently so read both. YES!!!!! i would love to make noise, it has been a long time since i have been able to just let out. I cant wait to move so we can have more privacy.
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• United States
24 Jul 08
Ha ha look at baby sis at the bottom tryna censor me lmao.
@rhane7315 (5649)
• Philippines
10 Apr 08
as far as i know some men love their partner to make some noise and some don't that's what my bf told me about. i think i can't make such noise 'cause i think i'll look like a fool if i do that (that was always running on my mind lmao) my bf ask me why do i think like that and the only reason i said that i'll look like a fool if i make some noises and i think that is not suitable for me to make some noise
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