visual turn on...or off?
By Lybra2266
@Lybra2266 (96)
United States
April 10, 2008 4:24pm CST
Do men find it stimulating to see a woman touching herself during love making, or does it make the man feel as though he is not doing enough to please her without her help?? I've often thought of trying this, but don't want to make my guy feel offended by the gesture.
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@Esoteric1 (863)
• Canada
10 Apr 08
AS a man I think it is a turn on, I would not think I'm not doing enough. If anything it would encourage most men to do more, and they get turned on more. Talk to him ask him, I'm sure he would enjoy it as well.
@Lybra2266 (96)
• United States
12 Apr 08
Thank you for responding. I appreciate a man's point of view on this subject...most my women friends haven't a clue how to advise me on this matter. It is great to have a place to go to get others ideas and thoughts on such private matters.
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
11 Apr 08
I think it depends on the guy really but I know that for some of the men I've been with it was a HUGE turn on for them!! 
