if we can really just be ourselves and despite others' comments?
@cuplsupergirl (45)
China
April 11, 2008 12:14am CST
Sometimes we do something without considering others' comments ,and that's our freedom.However,we must face a embarrassing problem ,if we can really just be ourselves and despite other' comments?
I always feel that it's difficult to do so.Maybe I'm a coward,but in some special conditions,I feel so helpless.For example,last night,my roommate told me about her story.She said a boy was pursuing her seriously,but she didn't like him.However the boy doesn't give up,and tells his and my roommate's friends how deep he loves her.As a result,some friends say my roommate is a person who can not feel one's true love and maybe can not understand how to be a good lover or a friend.I think she is very innocent...
I want to know if you come across this problom,what will you do about it ?
1 response
@renee0909 (152)
• China
15 Apr 08
i think we chinese are more likely to concer about face-saving. growing up in this culture, it's really hard to just be ourselves. however, it's you who knows you best. i am trying to be myself. and once i've decided, others cannot influence me much mow.
@cuplsupergirl (45)
• China
16 Apr 08
thanks for your good response.i think you are an independent person.;)you're right .we may make ourselves too tired if we always concider others'comments.good luck for you.i hope you can have a wonderful life :)
