Unsure

United States
April 11, 2008 8:19am CST
My husband and i have been married a short time. i became pregnant very quickly after our marriage i he has trust issues with me and my past. I dont want to share my past with him nor does he want to know about it but i ran into someone recently with my husband and my husband got very upset and said he cant trust me, whether a friend or not he was of the opposite gender and talking to him broke my husbands heart. I tried to be as vague as possible and cut the visit short, but my husbands jealousy can hurt our relationship. At the same time i want his trust, how can i gain his trust without losing my self?
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mwhitten2007
@mwhitten2007 (31)
• United States
11 Apr 08
It sounds to me like your past is tearing hole in the two of you. I know you don't want to share nor does he want to hear of the past, but you may have to tell him. He may need to hear what all has happened for him to understand that it is him that you love and no one else. That just because you have opposite gender friends doesn't mean anything.