The Blaming Game!

Whoa! I once and I used to but upon realizing that everything that involves anything in my life is my own choice. Circumstances are there and those are facts but if I chose wisely and differently, I won't have to blame even the worst circumstance in my life. Even my birth has nothing to do with it, biological, sociological and all aspects of my life. We can make a choice and we can work things out, we just have to put determination in it, no matter what. One of my best motivation was, I am what I am today because I will be better tomorrow and that is, if I will do something about it. Have a wonderful day big bro. Cheers!

Admittedly,i think i think every one all involed in the "blaming game".most of the people will blame other people or things firstly. Personally,i am always involed in the "blaming game"when i sad or have difficult.as a student,when i have not perfect scores,i will blame for the teather,i will blame that the paper is too difficult.when i enter into my university,the surrounding is not so good as i am thought,i will belame of the school.when i have no good meals to eat.i will blame the refectory.the price is too high,the refectory is too small, the people is to many.Used to blaming is a bad habit.if you continue,you will always to blame and lost. I have see a speech by a famous speechmaker in my country.he said when some blame to you,you first think what you are wrong,and say sorry then you find where is the problem.when you face throwback,firstly you must self-examnation,and don't blame other's.i think it is a good way to be better and better.

I had that habit. It was always everyone else's fault. However a very wise woman taught me how to take the responsibility for myself and let me tell you my life took a new turn. It was never more helpful than during my divorce. I was so thankful I took the blame for what I had done wrong, really does something to help you sleep at night when you do that. Ainge

Yes I do play the blaming game from time to time, I would not say that I have a habit of blaming everything on everyone else but I do sometimes! I guess I should try harder to stop blaming others and knuckle down and start doing something about things for myself.

there are really many people as your said.

I tend to blame others for what I do, but it's not always something I intend on doing! I find myself giving up credit for bad things I have done to fellow co-workers that I really don't like. I know it's wrong of me, but than again I know of all the things that same co-worker has branded me with. It's wrong yes, but we do it anyway, regardless of the consequences.