what is a true friend for you???

Philippines
April 12, 2008 10:11pm CST
hello there dudez!!!i just want to know do you perceive about having a friend and your perception about a friend - a true friend. you know what?/we can't deny the fact that people come and go. but, who remains??is it always a true friend that always remains at your side??you may say that "it depends" upon the situation. my end question would be "what really binds a true and intimate friendship?" here's the situation: i have this very close friend. she don't know that i have a secret feeling for her which a remain kept until we are old enough already. we've been together for almost ten years because we are childhood playmates. we play volleyball together with our other friends. when we entered high school and college, we often meet and talk personally but we always text each other and we even open into topics regarding lovelife. later on, i just knew that this very special friend of mine got a boyfriend already and he's also one of our good friends in the circle. that moment on, i stopped wondering why she seldom texts me already... my questions would be: is she being a friend inspite the fact that she did not tell me bout the relationship she entered? it is our pledge to one another that if ever we will enter into a relationship, we will be the first ones to know about it. she failed our promise. why do you think she did it? we are not communicating until now. i dont have any contact from her already since she changed her phone number. what can you advice so that in time, we can reconcile to one another and regain and enhance our longtime knockeddown friendship?? pls help me with this friends!!!thnx
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@tess1960 (2385)
• United States
13 Apr 08
I think by changing her number and not calling you she has already given you the message that she has outgrown your friendship. This sometimes happens. You are better off to stop worrying and thinking about this/and her & to make new friends and enjoy the circle of friends you already have. If you and her are meant to be friends you will one day cross paths again but until then you must let her go.
• Philippines
13 Apr 08
thank you so much for your response...i got your point.. i think i should not worry about it as of now..i should concentrate with my present life and my new circle of friends. thank you!!you are right,someday, in God's time, our path will cross and we hope we can talk "heart-to-heart"...thank you!!more power!!god bless!!1
• Philippines
13 Apr 08
For me having just a couple of friends are enough than having a dozen but doesnt seem like a true friend at all... A lot of so-called friends sometimes backfight at you and even tell nasty rumors about you and your family. I have a bestfriend named Lieazl and i can assure you that she's really an angel and she doesnt hesitate to tell me if I'm doing wrong... I love my bestfriend and I will not trade her for new friends whom I dont know very well...
• Philippines
13 Apr 08
i understand your point but i guess friendship between a male and a female is greatly different form friendship between females..all i want someday is that we can talk sincerely to one another...thank you so much for your response...