does it affects you if your discussion has no response?

Philippines
April 13, 2008 5:40am CST
ive been a member now for two months or more i guess and it is always fun to be logging in here. i am also delighted to see that i have emails of people who started their discussion and comments and responses that i got. out of all the discussion i started i got a discussion with no response. i am not sad no worried but i think my discussion is some what lonely for it has no single response har har har. what do you feel when your discusiion has no response. how many discussion you have with no response?
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7 responses
• Canada
27 May 08
Thankfully I do not have many discussions without any responses...but I did when I first signed up as well. There are still some at the bottom of the pile without any responses...and I just put it down to the fact that I was a Newbie without too many contacts. As I spent time here and made sure to respond to every response and visit friends' sites I usually have some responses...even when I've been away for awhile. Sometimes when I have been away I notice that I do not get the same number of replies that I do when I am here...but I understand that. Friends chat with friends..and when we are out of the loop replies are often less. So take heart my friend...keep posting and responding and I am sure you will continue to have more responses. Take care...and we will be in touch. Raia
• Philippines
28 May 08
happy to see that you spend time responding to my discussion. i am sure you have a lot of responses for you are one of those mylot members that i admire. your discussion really floods with a lot of responses. as of now i am still on the process of gaining more friends and i am happy to have you as one.
@zed_k4 (17624)
• Singapore
12 May 08
Hello bro. I do have discussions with no responses to it, if I'm not mistaken something about big bikes and also a question about xomba. Those were the questions I posted when I first started out in mylot. However, to encourage you further, I advice you not to give up and don't get discouraged with 0 responses yeah. It's not the end of it, and I'm sure with more amazing discussions, you will get lots of answers. Personally to me, as long as I could find the answers to my discussion, I won't mind how many answers there are to it. Take care and have a nice day there. ;)-
• Philippines
28 May 08
xomba? whats that? i really dont mind how many responses i get but sometimes so amazed on how other members do that. well life is a learning process and so is mylot. you surf you learn. thanks a lot for the response
@ajaygupta (168)
• India
10 May 08
though i have lot lesser discussions started in comparision to u but yes sometiems i think how come no body responding, i just got one comment on my discussion and that gave me a lot of boost, but honestly i feel it may not have been noticed because every user has diff. interests added so we get unnoticed but above i just give responses and start dis... to see my lot earnings increasing and that gives me somewhat relaxation, but still i would love to have more responses and comments on my topics as to know what others think on my views- thanx
• Philippines
10 May 08
welcoeto ylot ajay. yes that is true that there are a lot of members and sometimes our discussion is not noticeable compared to the veteran members of mylot plus they have more friends on their list and that can really help. it is nice to know also other peoples views regarding a certain topic. happy posting
@subha12 (18452)
• India
14 Apr 08
yes, i feel bad. now o guess there is not much. but earlier there were many that had zero responses.its actually i think when you start some serious ones you get zero or very less responses.
• Philippines
16 Apr 08
my friend who is a member of mylot before, now he is no longer a member because someone hacked his account here and cant logged in. he said that i should not get to serioud here because a lot of people is here to just have fun. if i bore them i wont get any response. i think i heard that again from you so i need to remember that
@naseefu (1607)
• India
13 Apr 08
Some of my discussions also had no any response.That will make me some disappointment.But Now i think i have got enough responses for each discussions.(Even though I did not started more discussion).If we thought that it is a good subject and then it has no any response!!.I wish you all to get more responses for each discussions
• Philippines
16 Apr 08
good point, why do we have to feel sorry if some of our discussions has no responses if our other discussions are overwhelming. cool. now i dont have to be feeling anything towards my discussion without any responses
@2btrueinu (703)
• Philippines
13 Apr 08
I got discussion with no responses too but I'm not affected even sad about it maybe they don't like it so I try again. Some time if find our work not good we find ways to improve it to be good. It's a matter of hard work and interest. Have a nice day!!!!!
• Philippines
16 Apr 08
that is true, if its not good then there is still room to improve. i like that. its like how to handle lifes ups and down... or just like basketball. if you cant shoot the ball try to get time to have it again then try to shoot it in a better position.
@raijin (10373)
• Philippines
13 Apr 08
At first I somehow got affected by it, so I searched for answers and reasons why. Then found out that I should be posting them in a well-thought and informative manner, a better a description about the subject could also help. I only limit myself on starting discussions that I know first hand, then make it better as possible to attract other's attention and for members to respond in it. Usually, I partake on posting to others' discussions, since that's where I get to learn and share more here.. I still have two pages of them, I believe. But I am not worried by it anymore, I just do whatever I could and enjoy being on this site..
• Philippines
16 Apr 08
hey now i leraned something from you, that we should just be posting it with well-thought and informative manner. i can also ask my wife on what topic she likes to start for i think there are more females here than males.