How long into your relationship..

My husband and I have been together for 13 years and decided to get married in 2004. Of course there is still relations after years of being with the same person. It's all up to the individual though. Maybe I am speaking too soon since it hasn't been 30 years, but we always talk about how it would suck to have to go through a divorce. You always hear of older couples who have been together longer than 30 years at their happiest moments. When I was younger, it was definitely hard to imagine, but now with kids under our belts, we have to think of them also. And of course, we love each other dearly!

well I am only 31 now ... lol but I had two seven year relationships, I was never married tho we basically were, domestically anyways, I didn't believe in needing the paper to say I was married. I never stopped having relations with either but I found in both around the 5 year mark things become difficult things become routine and mundane.