what do you do before married?

April 14, 2008 6:52am CST
i want married on august 2008, and i', ready for that, but i don't know what should i do before married? i have no vision for that, i cant imagine that i have become a husband for my wife but i don't know what should i do... if you had married and have experiences about it, please tell me, i want to learn about it
2 responses
• Indonesia
14 Apr 08
first of all, you must prepare yourself: that you will have one person live with you with all your responsibilities. This responsibilities will get multiplied if you have children later. second: you must prepared yourself that you will have a friend for your lifetime, how you manage your feelings to never get bored with her. third: you should manage your 'love feelings' with your mate. You will get that feels were 'ripped off' sometimes. fourth: always think that you are head of a family, the leader of one or more people. Give your time to think what your people want, what they have, and how to support them. Maybe only these tips I can give to you. Maybe much more... By the way, Congrats to you...
@deeeky (3667)
• Edinburgh, Scotland
14 Apr 08
Be yourself and better yourself each and every day. You only have the one life so make the best of it. Take one day at a time to the best of your ability. The past has gone and the future we do not know. Make the best of today and learn as much as possible. Have a great day from Deeeky