after a fight
By SomeCowgirl
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
United States
April 15, 2008 3:58pm CST
After you fight with your boy/girlfriend wife/husband or fiance, how long does it take for you to calm down? Who's usually the first one to say they're sorry, do you feel bad for it immediately or stay furious at them for awhile? What if you yell at them? How long before you apologize for it?
My fiance and I don't get into too many fights, but when we do I immediately apologize for it. I don't like conflict, infact, I hate it immensely. I try to stay as calm as possible, even if he is bothering me. I also try to tell him about it immediately, but that is easier said then done.
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@busta1baby (1230)
• United States
21 Apr 08
oo man i hate fighting with my pookie..and i mill be a big BIT** to him wen i get mad i turn into a BIG drama queen..but that is something i am working on and he is helping me as well...and yes i am usually the one who says sry 1st because im the one who will start them..and yes eventually i do cry...lol..and wen i do thats wen we stop cuz he hates to see me cry..lol
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
21 Apr 08
I hate to fight with my man to, and most of the time it is over stupid stuff. I'll tell him that I am being a nice ripe B**** but he doesn't seem to want to believe me. I know that sometimes it is hard to fight the impulse when you feel that you are right, to be a b****
@yona06 (585)
• Indonesia
16 Apr 08
Me and my husband never have big fights. Well, not that I remember. But we do get into arguments. It never takes us too long to calm down since we're both patient and understanding, but he is almost always the one to apologize (even though it's me who's wrong) because he hates being hated by me and I just have too much pride, lol. I love that part of him :)
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
16 Apr 08
My fiance and are impatient as all. We hate having to wait, and especially for each other. Surprising, we don't fight at all about that. We do calm down rather quickly, as well. Apologizing is usually shared equally.
@sassysammy81 (369)
• United States
16 Apr 08
Me and my husband do bicker,but I wouldn't say fight.
Y es I lose it and I usually stay mad for awhile,I usually do feel bad about doing it.I usually don't say I'm sorry,because I feel I am right because that is the only time I will bicker when I know I;m right and he thinks other wise.
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
16 Apr 08
For me it doesn't matter who is right and who is wrong. I still feel bad, and I will still say I am sorry. I understand your view though.
