How do you accept lesbians?

@kharen (1488)
Philippines
April 16, 2008 11:14am CST
are you disgusted with them? do you understand them? are you one of them or do you at least accept them as who they are?
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12 responses
• United States
28 May 08
never was disgusted with them. i def. do under stnad them. and i am one of them. and i understnad myself,lol.
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@kharen (1488)
• Philippines
24 Jun 08
well then, maybe i'm one too...
@sameroad (3179)
• United States
3 Jun 08
i am one.. so i guess i understand them lol but i think it depends on understanding them how? and of course i'm not disgusted by them then i would be disgusted by myself. lol
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@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
12 Jul 08
I really don't get disgusted with them and everyone is free to choose whatever it is that they want then again, you can't just simply choose an orientation, you simply realize it. The youngest sister of my mother happens to be a lesbian. I just realized it not long ago but, during those times that I had no idea, she was alright
• United States
25 Apr 08
I am not disgusted by them. I don't personally fully undrestand them, but it is not up to me to understand. Meaning I am not lesbian so I dont have to understand it. I do accept lesbians and I have three lesbian friend that accept my sexuallity also.
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@bradhart (659)
• United States
16 Apr 08
whats not to understand they like girls usually for the same reasons I do...
• United States
28 Apr 08
i am one so i guess i understand them but i still think some guys are hot just dont want nothing from them
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• United States
3 Jul 08
I'm certainly not disgusted and I do understand. Everyone deserves to be happy as long as no one is getting hurt.
@chaigay20 (166)
• Philippines
3 Jun 08
i'm Not disgusted with them. i have gay and lesbian friends and i think they're fun to be with. =) like the rest of us, they just wanted to be accepted in the society.
@dianne17k (587)
• Philippines
16 Apr 08
I think people should be free to choose whoever they want to love or be with. For a time, I was sorta homophobic but I discovered lesbians are just like everybody else. I think it sucks that because of discrimination most of them are somewhat forced to stay in the closet.
• Indonesia
2 Jun 08
i know lesbians love womens. i do love womens but i'm not a lesbians. i'm a normal man well, i don't have any idea about that. still, i prefer normal women.
• Indonesia
16 Apr 08
i don't understand them. but well, they are human kind also. why don't we accept them as who they are?
• Philippines
3 Jun 08
I'm definitely not disgusted of them! Yes I do understand them. There are two kinds of lesbians, a butch (blue) & a femme (pink). The butch is the "guy" in a relationship while the femme is the "girl" in a relationship. There are butches who are discreet meaning they still carry clothes like women does, so we call them "soft-butch" or "futch. Those butches who carries clothes like men are called "hard-butch", some of these "hard butches" looks like a real man. I know these much because I'm one of them and I want you to know that I'm very proud of it! I'm the "femme". Almost of my friends are lesbians, actually we have a group & we used to organized exclusive parties for women. My lesbian friends are very fun to be with. Our week wouldn't be complete if we don't see each other. As a revelation, my partner is a "butch" and we're together for 5 years & 4 months (still counting). Oh, just wanna share that I felt that I am a lesbian when I was just a kid, I had my first relationship with a "soft-butch" when I was in Grade 4. I never had a boyfriend. My parents' also accepted me for who I am. So to my fellow lesbians, HELLO & BE PROUD!!! =)