Are you in touch with your ex????

@alcazar (761)
India
April 18, 2008 12:01am CST
I have had this girlfriend of mine,we had a wonderful relationship which lasted for 1yr and then the differences came and we parted our ways. And now we both are in new relationships...but off late like a month she has been calling me and we are quite in touch ....not as lovers but as just friends..... I dont think there is anything wrong with this... What do you think???
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5 responses
@nghaipao (89)
18 Apr 08
Oh!... This is one of the most interesting life... I haven't come across but I think this is the life that we should enjoy... Me too I have a friend which was broken in last 2 3 years... she call me once but I don't want to talk to her I don't know whats wrong with me... Yeah I wish to be like yours but now I am Amm I think I can't do that... Keep on touch in this manner this is what I want to advice you... Thanks
@tigertang (1750)
• Singapore
18 Apr 08
It depends on which ex you're talking about. My mother has been in touch with and close to her ex-husbands for the past 30plus years. I tried to be friends with my ex-wife after it was clear that our marriage was on the end. However, she found out that I had a fling with someone else and she felt she could not speak to me. Funnily enough my life has been a bit more peaceful since she walked out.
@jesbellaine (4155)
• Philippines
19 Apr 08
No, I don't have any communication with my previous boyfriend. We both parted ways and started a new life but we never really get in touch.
@podqueen (344)
19 Apr 08
There is nothing wrong with staying in touch with your exes. But I think it all depends on how your relationship ended. If you split up amicably and mutually it's easier to become friends in my opinion, but if the split up was a nasty one it's probably best to not stay in touch. I still see my ex-boyfriend when I'm on holiday who is now married with a kid, but most importantly I have to be honest with my present boyfriend and consider his feelings. If my boyfriend feels threatened then I will not meet up with my ex. I'm lucky that my present boyfriend is ok with it now (he wasn't to begin with!) as I've spoken to him about it and he knows that I wouldn't do anything to hurt our relationship.
@cherriemae (3374)
• Philippines
18 Apr 08
yeh, sometimes we text, were still friends after we broke up..but my very last ex-boyfriend, the father of my baby, we dont have any communication, that i dont know if he's already married or still single..honestly, i really want to talk to him as a friend and as a father of my baby, i already forgiven him, theres no pain or hatred in my heart.i already moved on and ready to find the right one..yes, theres anything wrong with this..
@rexiemay (402)
• Philippines
18 Apr 08
being friends with your ex is not really a problem. it actually depends on the two of you if you could still have a friendly relation after your break-up. there are some people like me who is not really comfortable to be friends with my exes. as long as you are comfortable, and also your new girlfriend, then there is nothing wrong with it. after all, you guys have been through a lot together. if you didnt make it as a couple, then you could probably end up as good friends.