is one enough for you?

Indonesia
April 18, 2008 1:05am CST
well, maybe this is a stupid and improper question. anyway, this will be very kind of you if you could share your opinion. is one partner enough for you, or you still need somebody else...
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18 responses
• Indonesia
20 Apr 08
I love mu husband and to be with him only is more than enough for me. I want to be faithful and hopefully I am the only one for him too... To be honest, handling one partner is already make me content and I can't imagine how to handle more than one.. LOL..
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• Indonesia
20 Apr 08
hi afternoontea, glad to know you happy with your husband and you guys love each other. i'm sure you will be the only one for each other. well, i think handling more than one won't make you happier except you can arrange a good schedule and strictly follow the schedule
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• Indonesia
20 Apr 08
Hehehe... No.. Thank you.. I've been busy keeping this one..
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• Indonesia
20 Apr 08
that's right decision! hopefully you will always be happy
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@cjgrooms (4456)
• United States
19 Apr 08
I only need the husband i have. we love each other and i would Never risk that by being stupid. I also trust him not to cheat and i promise you i don't give that paticular trust lightly.
• Indonesia
20 Apr 08
that's sweet. thx for sharing it for us
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@cjgrooms (4456)
• United States
20 Apr 08
Your welcome.
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• United States
19 Apr 08
my husband is enough for me i don't need anyboys else. i don't want anybody else. i can't even imagine my life with out my husband.
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• Indonesia
20 Apr 08
nice to know that. thx for being here. have a great day!
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• United States
21 Apr 08
hope u have a good day also
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@diansinta (7550)
• Indonesia
18 Apr 08
No! i don't think his question is stupid. And I like this question. I want to be faithful with my patner. And i hope he does that as well, to be faithful to me. But live is give a lot of example cheating. sad isn't it?
• Indonesia
20 Apr 08
you're very nice. i hope...no, i'm sure he will does that. yeah, it's terrible that some people even think that cheating is an important part of a relationship
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@diansinta (7550)
• Indonesia
21 Apr 08
Thank you so much sutanhartono, i really hopping that i found 'my prince' in the future. Remembering the fairy tales i hear when I was a little girl, every princes found their prince in the end. All this examples of life seems so faded and far. But i wanna believe that. There was one for me. Thank you that is so sweet.
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• United States
18 Apr 08
For me... One is more than enough. Although it depends on one's feelings for their "other". If you have strong feelings, one is enough. Me, One is all that I want. I love to wake up next to her every day. Hang out, talk about things( even nonsense). The great majority of men these days cheat, fool around, mess up something that could have been great. I know, I've done that. I have lost very good women in the past by taking every little piece of tail that came my way. now I have a great woman by my side. I'm not going to let anything happen to that. I do not even want anyone else. She completes me.
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• Indonesia
20 Apr 08
that's very kind of you to share your experiences to us. i believe it will be very useful for us. nice to know you got second chance . that rarely happens. have a nice day...
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• United States
21 Apr 08
Thanks for the reply! I hope that you have a good one also.
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@tessah (6621)
• United States
20 Apr 08
it isnt a question of one being enough or not enough.. but simply whether or not i care for more than one at the same time, which does happen alot in everyones lives. i thankfully, am not forced to limiting where my heart goes, and am free to feel what i feel for whomever i feel it and express that.
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• Indonesia
21 Apr 08
well, you have a unique view about this topic thx for let us know your opinion..
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@sd_abot (177)
• Philippines
20 Apr 08
One is enough for me. What about you? I'm going to give your question back to you.
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• Indonesia
20 Apr 08
i'm similar with you. one is more than enough for me thx for being here...
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• Nigeria
19 Apr 08
Well if you are not ok with what you have and you think is not enough you can go for another.But be a good player not to get cought.But the proper and right thing is to be with one partner.Dont be the type that plays around.Be a good boy because HIV/AIDS is real or you could contact other related STD's.Imagine your partner having more than one partner to her self,how would you feel.Thats what i'm talking about.
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• Indonesia
20 Apr 08
thx for your advice i will pay attention to that.
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@rmuxagirl (7559)
• United States
19 Apr 08
i am more than satisfied with my partner. It's not about the physical side of things, m ore of the emotional and spiritual side.
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• Indonesia
20 Apr 08
i agree with you. relationship with our partner is much better to be a holistic relationship. thx for being here
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@mnsrwt123 (2058)
• India
18 Apr 08
yeah, its enough for me to have one girlfriend for me and I only need someelse if she isn't there where I am... So you can also say that I want more than one ...LOL Have Fun!!!
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• Indonesia
20 Apr 08
it will be dangerous if you're in my position. my girlfriend lives in another city. it meets the condition you mentioned to have someone else but i don't want to do that since i love her so much.
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@XnatenE (38)
• United States
18 Apr 08
i am very satisfied with one partner. i am not the type who would look for some one else. i think if you already found the love of your life you wil no longer need another one.. probably the reason that one is not enough of you is because that person is not the one you really want.. i think it is also not right to be with somebody just for the sake of being with someone... also when you think and decide to be with someone, stick to your decision and stand for it.. make everything work.. be the perfect partner to that person as much as you could.. every kindness and love you show to your partner will be worth it and you wont regret it... you will get it back 10 folds.. and the more love you get from that person the more you will become a better lover.
• Indonesia
20 Apr 08
i didn't say that one is not enough for me. thx for sharing your valuable opinion here... have a great day...
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@ayessa (1586)
• Philippines
18 Apr 08
I don't want to think that you're a polygamous or what because of your posted discussion but...are you? Anyway it depends on the person, Some may be contented with just one partner while other still looks for another one or even more. For me, as I would speak for myself. Im very much content with my partner now and I don't have any interest on having another one. Not even in my thoughts it comes out. I love my partner so much that I can't imagine of hurting him. Now if you'll look for another partner aside from what you had I think its improper. And I don't want to say that you don't love your recent partner. Probably you may still look for something which you haven't found in her yet. Or you had a reason which I don't know. But for me it is not enough reason. If my partner would do this I'd better ask him to leave than to have a third party involve between us.
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• Indonesia
20 Apr 08
my dear ayessa, i'm not a polygamous. i love my girlfriend and the fact that she love me is much more than enough for me. that's great of you. i'm sure your partner will be very happy if he know your opinion. thx for being here
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• Philippines
18 Apr 08
yes,one partner that is true & honest is enough for me. I would rather be alone with one person for the rest of my life than to be with hundreds of friends and lovers who are not really true and worth keeping. Fair weather friends & lovers are just a waste of time. we only got a lifetime to spend with that one person we love & love us in return, so why waste precious moments with other people right?
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• Indonesia
20 Apr 08
that's true. thx for your response
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@nanayangel (7860)
• Philippines
18 Apr 08
Hi there sutanhartanto! Well, I won't say that it is a stupid and improper question since it is just for discussion and you're not forcing everyone to answer it if they find it offensive. Personally, I'm satisfied and very happy with just one partner, my husband.
• Indonesia
20 Apr 08
hey nanayangel, thx for your positive opinion regarding this discussion nice to know that you're satisfied and happy with your husband.
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@busta1baby (1234)
• United States
30 Apr 08
OOO YES I DNT NEED MORE THEN ONE TO KEEP ME HAPPY..THE ONE IM WITH NOW HE IS WONDERFUL
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@chiyosan (30196)
• Philippines
8 May 08
i am contented with one partner. if you dont love your partner anymore, tell him / her and end the relationship. at least have some respect for your partner not to have two person loving you at the same time. don't be so selfish.
@Malyck (3428)
• Australia
2 May 08
Yes, my one boyfriend is certainly enough for me, and I would never want to be dating/seeing more than one person at once. That's a sign of immaturity that shows a person shouldn't be in a relationship, as far as I am concerned. I do think that we need other people in our lives, like our friends and family and the people we associate on a day to day basis, because it's important that we have a wider circle of people around us, I think. People that we can talk to and do other fun things with, but definitely not some side-relationship, that's just not cool. =D Have a great day, and congrats on 500 posts!
• United States
2 May 08
Yes one is enough for me. I found my special person 35 years ago and we are still married today. I have no need or want to have anyone else. We have gone through thick and thin together and I can not picture anyone else in my life. Just him.