Friends?????

Hey, my name is Christy and if you ever want someone to talk to, please private message me. We can talk through email or aim or even here but I would love to have someone to talk to sometimes! And you've got to get rid of this loser. The best thing I can think of is to contact the authorities in your area and tell them your problem. Get a restraining order, a personal protective order or whatever but you need to let this guy know you're not going to take it. Get support from your family or friends. Maybe you can move so he doesn't know where you are. Any way you choose, you have to make a stand to get this guy out of your life. It's going to be hard but you don't need him weighing you down. I hope you'll take everyone's advice to get rid him. I'll try my best to help you if you want. But if you just want to chit chat, I'd be happy to do that, too. I know what it's like to need someone to talk to.

Hi Myragdollcat, I am always here for anyone and would be happy to talk, just send me a mail. I have been in a similar situation to yours and I know you must be going through a really rough time right now. Anyway, do get in touch if you need to.

Toss the bum,you should stop being co-dependant on a guy who lives off the land.Who does nothing to improve yours or his life,honey get rid of the moocher and you will feel better,you are the only one who can solve this problem,stop feeling sorry for this guy"he's a bum".

I am sorry to hear that.I just saw this situation happened in books or TV.I can understand your mood now.So I suggest that you move to another new place to start a new life.Cut all contacts with him.Choose a man who really love you and live a peaceful happy life.May you luck.

I am so sorry you are having to go through this...It must be awful for you.I am here if you need a friend and want to talk.I am a good listener well reader in this case...Can't you get your ex out of teh back yard with the laws help?Anyway I am here if you need a friend...

You can talk to me,I know what you feel like. Friends?

It is sad too hear your story , you can always confess here in mylot we are always here to reply you yea .

Get rid of the creep, get out and enjoy life. Perhaps you will ind yourself that special man who will be your companion for life. It is hard going it alone. Besides, you do not need a loser. Can you get the police to remove him? That would help and you could get an order for protection. You will find lots of people here to talk to on myLot. Some of them have been through what you have been through and they can give you suggestions as to what to do.

I'm a 54 yr old single woman with no man troubles and a bunch of cats - yes, I'm a crazy cat lady... Do you have a ragdoll cat, I'd like one, but I don't buy cats, I rescue them. The roomie and I found homes for 16 cats last year, and 4 of them were a litter of 10 old kittens. What I'd do if I had some jerk in my backyard is to put a restraining order on him and get him OUT of my back yard - then put a big dog back there trained to chase HIM.

Hello, and welcome to myLot! Seems hard to be still having trouble with past relationships. I have never had troubles like that before, and I hope I never get into this. It must really be hard. Specially if the person is like your husband. I feel sorry for you. Know that, if you need a friend, you can message me. I am here to talk about anything you want. Respectfully, Munhozmib.

seems your need need someone to talk to. i am free if you want. i am still single and waiting the right one to come. LOL. could you be the right one? . if you wont leave he will still bother you day by day.

You made a great decision by joining mylot.com you will get to meet lots of nice people who will offer a shoulder to lean on. It really hurts when your abusive ex keeps nagging you. You should avoid him at all costs because there is nothing of value he will add to your life if anything it will be misery. You can talk to me without any hesitations and I hope you will get over it very soon. Lively up every things gonna be al right.

hi ragdollcat.... even though we don't know each other you can talk to me.... i'm here for you!

Oh my goodness, I cannot begin to imagine. I am new here, but I am a good lsitener (if i do say so myself rofl) and sometimes i even have some good advice *wink* seriously tho, i agree with everyone who said cut ties, id even go so far as to say call the cops if he keeps hanging around. How can you be expected to feel safe in your home if someone is outside at night? Hugs and well wishes

you can talk to me my friend so you can forget those problem of yours & share with us, lot of co-mylotters to can help you, as we know this site is good to everyone not only just we can earn but to listen & give hand to others.

You have the right to stop him from harassing you, myragdollcat, and you really should exercise that right. I would like to be your friend since my supply of friends is rather short also. I would advise you to have a serious talk with him and emphasize that he should move on with his life. You might need to take legal steps if that doesn't work.

here onmylot we are friendly people who sahre pains and joys together,am so sorry about your ex,its so painful sometimes to feel abused but i want you to know that you need to move on with your life in as much as you can make friends here you still need friends around you who you can go out and visit and vice versa,i am willing to be a friend if its fine by you.

Don't let anybody destroys your life. If you don't want him close to you, talk to him seriously and, in last case, talk to the police. Think about all the weapons you have to keep your happiness!

hi there, my name's davud, i just hope that this message will give you strenght to get rid of this person who is being a parasite and an energy sucker. You're a victim of this person who aggresses you, never forget this. i know that as a victim of conjugal violence (physical or verbal), there's lots of social and psychological pressure to stop you from taking action against violent men because it is such an institution and almost normal. Dont forget that there are millions of men women in your case, you are not alone. I am sure there is a local group of women that would totally listen, support you and give you the necessary legal info if you need it. There are women out there with the same history ready to help you. I hope you will be safe soon and wish you the best of luck lots of love

hi myragdoll, i'm sorry you have to go through all that.. you came to the right place, you have a lot of people you can talk to here in mylot, including me.. so feel free to talk or even vent our your frustrations. please, learn to say no to him, and report him to the police if things should get out of control. he shouldn't have that much hold on your life, he's just your boyfriend; he's not even your husband. He has no right to hurt you, not even verbally. If you need to keep him away for good, maybe you can file a complaint against him.. he's not worth wasting 6 years of your life.. you must release all negative things in your life so you could move on to have a better life