how do u handle BITTER experiences??
By pree_6
@pree_6 (434)
India
April 19, 2008 3:55am CST
human beings always have some needs and always expect things to happen..if it happens favourably no worries..but if a situtation turns out negative,there comes a problem...for eg..i went to a companys interview,was very confident in giving the answers..i liked everything about the office...i was waiting for the list of selected candidates...i was very confident that my name wil also be called..but unfortunately my name was not chosen...i became totally upset..as time passed i listened to few songs changed my mind and i thought life is about both happiness n sadness.. something is awaiting me even better than this n changed my mind...always our expectations do not get fulfilled...wat u guys do wen ur expectations are not met?..what measures do u take in order to forget bitter experiences???..
5 responses
@zer0charly (5613)
• Philippines
21 Apr 08
what you did is really good..and remember, we should always think positive,but we shouldn't expect. I believe that if that is really meant for you,you'll really get it..but if not (even if you really want it)well, you really need to accept it.like what you've said, "something awaits you even better.."that's a good attitude..
@wangchunxia (701)
• China
30 May 08
I just try my best to do everything , if it is not good as i expect , i will not disapoint very much ~!
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
25 Apr 08
Like most humans, i will keep pondering over the same thing again and again.. Keep thinking as to y things turn out as wat i din expect it to be.. AFter happening for a few times to me, i start to hope for less.. Just like the saying, the higher your expectations, the greater your fall.. Thus, by not having too much hope on things, naturally we wun feel as disappointed.. Just let nature take its own course and we only hope for the best.. But no matter wat. we still must do our best in things, so that even when we fail, at least we know there are ple who are more stronger than us out there, and we must try harder next time ^_^
@kezabelle (2974)
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19 Apr 08
I think in that example you have to move and like you did think there will be something better out there. I truely think everything happens for a reason and we have to have some bitter or sad experiences to truely appriciate or know when a happy situation comes our way
@jesbellaine (4139)
• Philippines
30 May 08
It happens.. so I try to keep it up and move on with my life... treat it as a lesson to learn and avoid in the future.
