"Friends with benefits". Anyone???

@djionn (12)
Philippines
April 20, 2008 12:55am CST
Well it seems everything's evolving nowadays, even dating and relationships. There are new trends in relationship/friendship set ups that are really getting popular, one of these is the so called "friends with benefits". What is your view about it? Are you in?
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5 responses
@Gesusdid (1681)
• United States
20 Apr 08
id say its not fit for every person cause not every person is fit for this type of "relatioship" alot of people get the rules mixed up and start to catch feelings and whatnot and then sometimes want to marry the person when the other person isnt even on that same mind set ,
@djionn (12)
• Philippines
22 Apr 08
yes i agree... it is easy to have a mutual agreement on rules they both want to follow, what is hard is sticking to it... thanx for the comment.. by the way if u wont mind me asking, wats in a name "gesusdid"?
• United States
20 Apr 08
I do not mind it as long as no one is hurt. A lot of my friends in high school were "friends with benefits" because finding someone that you were in love with was hard to do, and if you were going to lose your virginity to anyone, why not lose it to a friend? Now, I have a boyfriend because I found true love, at least, I really hope that I have found true love. Relationships, the majority of the time, take work. Take everything one day at a time, seriously.
@djionn (12)
• Philippines
20 Apr 08
so, i think it has to be a mutual no holds barred understanding at the beginning so that no one will be hurt in the end? what if one of them falls in love? any way, i,m glad you finally found your love. Wish you both all the best. thanx rouge. godspeed!
@Sir_bobby88 (8242)
• Singapore
21 Apr 08
That is why people always say that True friends are always hard to come , so cherish it when it comes yea .
@ajaygupta (168)
• India
21 Apr 08
yes, and i think it is far more satisfying and worth because one exactly knows the outcome of the relationship either side rather being in pain for coming to know that someone u trusted and believed to have as a friend with no benefits betrays ur trust. here there is no such scope of being betrayed or thugged by anyone and nor anyone can say u betrayed me yes there can be some variations in the output but still some loss some gain simple nothing else .
@jennybianca (12913)
• Australia
20 Apr 08
I have no idea what you are talking about. I have never heard of friends with benefits? I must be very behind the times. I will look at your other responses to try & figure this out.