can you admit that you cheated somebody?

@rexiemay (401)
Philippines
April 20, 2008 11:25pm CST
telling everyone that a person has cheated on you is easy. but what if the finger is pointed at you? can you admit that you have cheated on somebody? can you accept the consequences of that admission?
9 responses
@bluishrose (2290)
• Philippines
21 Apr 08
I think its the girls who are having a hard time admitting when they cheated because its not common or in our nature to do it. Unlike for the guys who are born polygamous as they say. For me i think im one of those who won't or will have a hard time to admit. Since i want to have a good reputation. But maybe after some time i will tell that person that i cheated and am very sorry bout it.
@Ravenladyj (22919)
• United States
21 Apr 08
I think its the girls who are having a hard time admitting when they cheated because its not common or in our nature to do it that is so NOT true LOL...cheating isnt gender specific, male, female, it doesnt matter...its a persons personality that will or wont have them cheating..and its JUST AS COMMON for a girl to cheat as it is a guy if not MORE common IMO...
• Philippines
21 Apr 08
LOL! yea maybe your right!
@excellence7 (3649)
• Mauritius
22 May 08
For a real honest man, cheating and being cheated are both equally tough thing to do and bear. If ever, knowingly or unknowingly iv cheated on someone, owing up can never account for it, nor health the agony inflicted, yet it does help in reducing my guilt, else my conscience will gnaw at me..
@rexiemay (401)
• Philippines
7 Jun 08
yes i agree with what you said. it really takes courage to admit that you cheated on somebody. thank you for your response.
@Danny08 (395)
• Canada
30 May 08
This is the problem...........people cannot see their own back...realities are hard to admit. It takes a lot to accept the blame and live through the guilt. Needs lots of courage and guts to admit. People should not get involved in someone's life, instead try to fix their own backyard....fix that first before pointing fingers.
• Philippines
30 May 08
Yes... I have.. and i explained why... But the thing is I can't undone what has been done.. and before I di it.. I ha reasons too...
@Ravenladyj (22919)
• United States
21 Apr 08
Yea I can admit it..I've not only been the cheater but I was also the mistress on 3 different occasions..It was long ago and has been long since over and done with...
@chiyosan (30213)
• Philippines
21 Apr 08
i will admit if i have to if i really did cheat on someone. i know its hard but i would be admitting this to the person i have cheated on and explain what caused me to do so. i won't be explaining to other people not involved in my life. they have no right to have anything to say about my life anyway.
@staci26 (102)
• United States
21 Apr 08
I to be honest have too guilty of a conscience to hide anything from my significant other. Im the type of person who fesses up to the things I've done, but bottom line if I am cheating then I dont really want the relationship that I had. But I dont cheat and have never even thought about it because I married the man I want to be with for the rest of my life and I honestly wouldnt know what to do without him.
@alexigne (903)
• Philippines
21 Apr 08
Yes, i already admit it, it's not that easy but i need to face the situation. I was hurt, that is the reason why i cheat him but i know from myself that it is not reasonable to that. After telling the truth, thinking about the consequences, it give the opportunity to let my feelings and pain out and be more close to him. Sharing and opening what's inside our heart.
• Canada
21 Apr 08
i have admitted/confessed. i believe that is the best way to let go and move on from peoples mistakes, people more often should learn to forgive and forget!