Oh man i dont know wut to do

Canada
April 21, 2008 1:14am CST
Alright so, I have liked this girl for 3 years, she wasnt ready to date than but she is now. Only problem is that shes in a long diatance relationship with a guy she has never met. They talk over the internet and phone. She said she doesnt plan on dating me becasue she wating for him. Shes never had a real bf before. Like i really do care about her, it kills seriously. Im not sure wut to do, like were friends. I make her smile and i compliment her alot. I asked her wut made u love this guy, she said you dont need to know. Could it be either she doesnt know or just doesnt want to tell. I would basically do ne thing to be with her. Could it just be puppy love? I dont think you can truly love and date someone over the internet and phone. Considering like i said shes never had a real bf. Could she be scared to date real people? Like i dont understand why she wouldnt want to date a great guy like me that less than 10 mins away from her. I'm actually scared that im never gonna get that chance to be with her. For her long distance bf, yeah he could be all sweet n stuff over the phone and on msn. In person he could be a complete opposite n could be playing her. So wut advice can you mylotters give me? Have you been in this situation before, or close to it. I swear love completely sucks.
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@rsa101 (22945)
• Philippines
21 Apr 08
Well there's one thing you can do. Tell her how you feel about her, your concerns and intention. If she still opts for her long distance relationship, let her be. At least you have said what is in your heart right now and has done what a person who is in love ought to do.
• Canada
21 Apr 08
well that i want to do but, i am afraid of losing her as a friend. If i did id be really in the hole. In the mean time ill just keep talkin to her, making her laugh and complimenting her alot.
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@rsa101 (22945)
• Philippines
21 Apr 08
Well of course there is a risk you have to take to get what you want. So the question now how do you want it to be a friend or a lover? There's no other way to go but choose between the two.
• Canada
21 Apr 08
Well here wut ill do, ill become a close friend. Who knows things can change, friendship can be just as fun in the mean time. Well its gonna have to be.
@aowaow (1517)
• Indonesia
21 Apr 08
3 years... That's too long. The girl indeed has no intention with you. In her heart she has another one, and she kept it for that long. You better leave this one, there is no point of wasting your valuable time. Otherwise, she is the one who never been in love. That's more fragile. What the nice word she told you, is just not to hurt you. But not giving you a hope. Just my advice, but if you still want to go on, it's your decision.