How I'm feeling today
@strawpurple6763 (372)
United States
April 21, 2008 11:07am CST
Last night my boyfriend came home drunk and god knows what else. And started yelling and screaming at me and saying I was out with another man on saturday night. I was with a couple of grilfriends and we danced and had fun. I danced with them and no guy. He accused me of sleeping with this guy who ever he was. I don't even know him and I told him to bring him over and I will call him a lair to his face. Because I didn't talk to no one, but my grilfriends that night.
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@goodhappens (671)
• United States
21 Apr 08
Just out of experience usually when one accuses the other of being unfaithful its usually because they feel guilty about something they have done. If you cant trust the one you are with then why be with them, that doesnt make for a very happy life.
I hope you get to feeling better and dont let him make you feel like you did something wrong when you didnt. you know the saying misery loves company, if he did something wrong he is not happy so he wants you to feel as bad as he does and justify his wrong doing.
@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
21 Apr 08
Just out of experience usually when one accuses the other of being unfaithful its usually because they feel guilty about something they have done
Yea I came to realize that several yrs ago myself actually and though its not always the case, there is definately alot of stock in it without a doubt..
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@goodhappens (671)
• United States
21 Apr 08
you are right ravenladyj it isnt always the case, but sure does suck when we have to learn first hand when it is...life lessons learned.
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@strawpurple6763 (372)
• United States
21 Apr 08
Yes. I think he is hiding something. I just don't what yet, but I will. Then I will do something about it. I told him, he needs to get some help.
@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
21 Apr 08
Wow...does he act like that often?? If so, I hate to be the one to ask it but, why in the hell are you still with him? Nobody shoudl be treated like that as far as I'm concerned UNLESS there is reason for it but you've stated that there IS NO reason..so IMO he's WAY out of line and I for one would NOT tolerate that!
sorry you're having a crap day and that your bf acted like an idiot...that sucks hardcore..
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@strawpurple6763 (372)
• United States
21 Apr 08
I have never cheated on him in the 13 years we have been together. And he knows that. But I have caught him twice cheating on me.
@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
21 Apr 08
That is unfortunate that he doesn't trust you enough. Once he sobers up you need to speak with him again.
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@shoelessjoe (81)
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21 Apr 08
Get rid of him,find someone who will respect you.You need trust in a relationship,also it is not a good sign that he comes home drunk and starts shouting at you, he sounds very controlling.If he does that whats he going to do next time he thinks your cheating on him
Get away before he hurts you physically or mentally
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