Why men can never understand a woman?

@aowaow (1516)
Indonesia
April 21, 2008 11:12am CST
We had seen many divorces case or breaking up in dating relationship, does it correlated to men can never understand a woman?
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@goergineo (1498)
• Jordan
22 Apr 08
yes I may agree cause it is not easy to understand women. they are weird and moody. I wish I can understand them.
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@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
22 Apr 08
I found him. Thanks for the responding.
• India
21 Apr 08
I have never understood why men feel it is so difficult to understand a woman. I mean, after all, a woman is a human being, not a creature from an alien planet. And both men and women face similar life challenges. Yet, men say they don't understand women. Strange! I have understood all the men in my life enough to know that they are all skunks. I did not find this that difficult. And I don't think any woman will ever say that she doesn't understand men. We all do, only too well. :) Cheers and happy mylotting.
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
21 Apr 08
Maybe they need more therapy from their Martian psychologists, to learn the art of understanding a Venusian. That's if they have one, maybe we can lend them one.
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@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
21 Apr 08
I dont think relationships end entirely because of men. Some relationships just don't work out. I men i don't think women can understand men entirely either. I think they end because of numerous different problems one of which being communication, trust, honesty/
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@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
21 Apr 08
Can you give me a sample of which way women cannot understand the men "entirely"?
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@bbsr13 (4196)
• India
21 Apr 08
Hello,aowaow,.... You don't understand man.so you are spending days and nights after him.man consider women as the use and throw article and truly after use for some days or some years he throws away the woman and run after another.am i right?
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
21 Apr 08
You write your relationship's agenda with that?
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• Indonesia
21 Apr 08
becouse they are all from mars and we are from venus....lol
@rup011 (725)
• Germany
21 Apr 08
Men and women are opposite poles. There are some basic differences in their behavior. Its true that opposite poles attract each other but some times, having opposite nature can cause friction. Each and every couple face this situation. But the problem is men complain that its difficult to understand women and women complain that men do not take efforts to understand a woman. Actually both have to take efforts to maintain a relationship. Both have to compromise and make sacrifices. Without compromise and sacrifice, no relationship can be maintained. Parents sacrifice a lot for their kids. If parents stop doing that, their relationship may be ruined. Similarly every relationship needs them, without them, any relationship may end.
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
22 Apr 08
You are right. That "others" had to be taught. Thanks for the posting. :)
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
22 Apr 08
Care to explain what kind of "sacrifice" to be made? Emotional "white-flag" or brain's "willingness"? Mostly men won't budge to do the "sacrifice". If they did, in their brain or nature, they think it's a Great Insult to them, it's broken their Pride as a man. But if they did to a woman, they think it's normal. Do you think man easily touch that "sacrifice"?
@rup011 (725)
• Germany
22 Apr 08
Men don't sacrifice most of the time. That's a fact. I am a woman and I feel the same. But men have to be taught. Some men learn, others do not. It varies from person to person.
@gantwick (849)
• United States
21 Apr 08
I gave up trying to understand women a long time ago. Why fight a losing battle?
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
21 Apr 08
So, you think a relationship is a battlefield?
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@gantwick (849)
• United States
21 Apr 08
I think a relationship is often a game of wits, with each using a different set of rules. A battlefield? I guess I should have made a chess analogy. On the other hand, there is the saying that "all is fair in love and war."
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
21 Apr 08
Not fair if you are cornering the opposite king with your two Rooks. Same in a relationship, men is always using those Two Rooks to win over the conversation.
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@dio123 (1788)
• India
25 Nov 08
you can't say all men are like this their are few men who understand and same time respect the feeling of woman, I am a man and I believe the most wonderful thing God has ever created on this earth is woman only, I respect them all whether she is my mother or girlfriend or sister or teacher anyone
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
25 Nov 08
That's it, always a denial, never an acceptance. Anyway, last one is better.
@megumiart (3771)
• United States
21 Apr 08
I think it's hard for men and women to understand each other because our brains are just wired differently. We women have a more complex emotional connection to men, I think.
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
22 Apr 08
Furthermore, we understand "him" Too Well.
• Philippines
22 Apr 08
I dont think its just that. Its both ways. At times men dont undertand women AND women dont understand men. I guess the main issue is communication. If couples dont exert effort to communicate, they really wont understand each other....
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
22 Apr 08
Okay, so you blame on communication and they are not understand each other because of this. Now, the question is: Can a couple in the dating relationship manage to step forward to the marriage life with no good communication and understanding to each other? I think people won't brave enough to decide for that, a marriage life by blinded conviction or understanding, or just for having fun. There is something missing from a man after he is in marriage life after several years later. It's not we can't understand a man, we did understand them too well.
@Ganesh44 (5547)
• India
21 Apr 08
lol understanding a woman is no joke....they r sometimes strange personalities....lol Ganesh
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
22 Apr 08
It will not strange to you anymore, if you can understand a woman.