do you have friends who always have drama in their lives??
By lala766
@lala766 (239)
United States
April 21, 2008 1:54pm CST
I have a friend who constantly has turmoil going on. Things are always about her and her problems. She is very self absorbed!! It drives me nuts and I have finally decided that I can not take it anymore and I am going to say something to her about it. Has anyone else ever had this type of problem? If so how did you handle it?
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4 responses
@babyangie27 (5176)
• United States
21 Apr 08
yes most of my onlien friends and a few of my offlien friends ahve this problem...but ya know sometimes it happens to me as well. When things never seem to go right and over and over again it seems like I have nothign but drama all the time lol.....if you speka to them tell them how you think they way they act means to you...maybe they just need someoen to talk to and they choose you to be the one they share with.
@sharay (2769)
• India
21 Apr 08
I just had the same exact problem with one of friend, instead of giving her umpteen number of advises, she does not want to correct herself but again fall in the same pit knowingly, i tolerated her for about 8 years, but then only recently, i said i just cannot stand her anymore and to not bother me or talk to me anymore unless she ever wants to change herself...
@sharay (2769)
• India
22 Apr 08
I had exactly the same response, what else cud we expect from such people! Since i was the one who completely know her, the tears dint melt my heart, because i was not prepared to see her eyes or lips anymore, i just saw her her mind and i knew that she cud survive wihtout me..so then i started to maintain some distance and gradually, now have gotten away from her, but even now she calls ones in a month or two, but i never call her
@ellie26 (4139)
• Malaysia
21 Apr 08
I have a friend and also my own sister who have this type of problem. Of course it is annoying when all they do is spill out their dissatisfaction, anger and frustration. Everything is about them, and worse they always think that they are the victims and everyone is out there to get them. I don't know but may be I am a good listener or a shoulder to cry on for them. They always call me up or invite them to their house to listen to their problems. I try to be as patient as I can. So, I just be there for them. Sometimes I do tell them that they are drama queen. But as usual, they never understood what I am trying to tell them. So, my misery continue on.lol
@sherlock27 (913)
• United States
22 Apr 08
I have gotten into arguments with such people. They act as if they're the only one's that ever had problems. It's like an attention getter. They get crazy over the smallest things. I really want to see them handle a very serious problem, they probably wouldn't know what to do, they'd be totally lost.
