Would you marry early if you really loved someone?

@ArienKing (4647)
India
April 21, 2008 2:57pm CST
Or do you think Marriages are idiotic and love is not real.?
18 responses
@jesbellaine (4140)
• Philippines
22 Apr 08
In my case, I think I would still not marry early if I really love someone that time because of my responsibilities for my family. I would have still waited few more years before settling down.
@MGjhaud (21956)
• Philippines
22 Apr 08
I remember my very first relationship and I thought I was so in love and all that. Take note I was just 16, hahaha.. Probably I would have been married to him at such a young age. If it wasn't for my college, I would have been married by now. I had to go away for college and so we slowly lost our communication. Slowly as well, my idea of being married at a very young age is something way to possible for me to do. I don't even keep a boyfriend now because I don't feel like being attached to someone for like in a day. hehehe.. What more if you're attached to someone forever..?
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@hartnsoul (558)
• Philippines
22 Apr 08
Marrying because you love the person is the most sensible thing ever. You dont get married because of compromise. But if it will result to early marriage and both parties are 'too' in love... it might seem that they are fools who are rushing... being so in love with somebody doesn't become a reason to marry that person. It's when you love yourself too much that you cant keep it within you and you just have to share it with others or a particular someone. :)
• India
22 Apr 08
In love age doesnt matter, but maturity does. Just because some 1 is deeply in love doesnt mean he/she shud jump into a marriage. First off you shud b ready to face the challenges of a married life. Shud b settled and stable enough. And yeah love is real 4 sure, and marriage is the best bond to attach them...
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@youless (104238)
• Guangzhou, China
22 Apr 08
I don't think so. I still need longer time to see whether we are suitable together. Marriage is a serious issue. I can't make up my mind when I am so young. If he loves me, he shall wait for me. I love China
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@nAyOhMi14 (298)
• Philippines
22 Apr 08
The question is,that someone loved you too? Yah,it's right to follow your heart or what you feel but even how much you loved that person if he/she doesn't love you, it's nonsense. Marriage is for the two person who have the same feelings for each other and love is the most important element of marriage.
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• Canada
21 Apr 08
If you really love someone in my opinion you should already feel as if you are marriaged! All marriage is a vow that you promise to be with them in sickness and health etc. without cheating etc etc.
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@dawnald (84206)
• Shingle Springs, California
21 Apr 08
Love is real but it changes as you are together a long time. It takes real work to keep a relationship working. Some people are not mature enough at an early age to realize that (I wasn't). I wouldn't have gotten married young, but that's just me. It does work out for some people, but the odds are better if you're a bit older (mid-20's and up).
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@kezabelle (2980)
21 Apr 08
Of course love is real to experience it is to know it is real. Early marriages I assume you mean at a young age well I always think you should grab happiness when you can and even if the marriage ends because they were too young etc well its a lesson learnt but most importantly they were happy when they had the chance to be, i think its better to look back and have as many happy memories as possible instead of looking back and always think I wish I had done that. I dont think marriage is idiotic its special and important to those who choose to do so
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@rombi001 (941)
21 Apr 08
it depends what you mean by early... I think you should wait until you have finished your education then get married.. So that you can focus on your marriage rather than exmas and all that... But I wouldn#t say marriage is idiotic...
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@rexiemay (401)
• Philippines
26 Apr 08
no. i dont think that if you love someone you should marry early. i believe that people should marry at the right age, at the right time and that is when you are already stable and can support the family you are going to start. i think that at the right time you can find someone who you will really love and will love you back. so have patience, dont rush to get married. wait for the right time and for the right person.
• United States
27 Apr 08
Getting married doesn't mean you have to "start a family". There are plenty of couples who don't want kids.
@ArienKing (4647)
• India
10 Jun 08
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@digerati (286)
• Philippines
11 Jun 08
hi arien, i think i do not, the more i love her, the more i will prepare for that marriage and for better family life and future as well. i also do not believe that you do not marry early means you do not loved your partner. marriages are sacred and must have a preparation for love is divine and real. preparing for this, digerati
• United States
26 Apr 08
If you are too young then you should wait just to make sure it is the right person, the qualities that you want in the person you marry will change as you get older but if it is true love waiting shouldnt matter. Also remember that theres more to marriage then love, it wont be all about the nights out or the cuddling on the couch with a movie. Life throws things at you and you need to make sure that the person your with is a good partner who will be able to handle those things with you and be there by your side to support you through anything
• India
23 Apr 08
Of course if I loved someone i would like to marry that person (if she has the same feeling).
@chiyosan (30213)
• Philippines
23 Apr 08
i think i will wait. i dont want to rush into marriage, even if i truly feel that i love the person and wants to spend time with him for the rest of my life. as for me, love is real.. i believe it happens to everyone, but not all gets to appreciate it's true beauty. Love is real of course, its a feeling, you dont see but you feel.. it makes you happy, sad, frustrated, etc...
@2btrueinu (703)
• Philippines
23 Apr 08
Even if I love him so much I will not. I will do first the thing that really important to me like find a stable job. Love can wait if he really love he will understand that it's to early to be married. Why we should be in a hurry if we find more important things to do rather than married early and suffered for our wrong decission.
• United States
23 Apr 08
I absolutely would and I am. I fell in love at 16 and we'll be married in 5 weeks.
• Philippines
23 Apr 08
no even though i loved him I will control myself because it wasn't the right time to marry someone. I think we should better wait until the time has come and if he will wait until that time I think it was the proof that he really loves me!