should i marry her?

China
April 22, 2008 8:52am CST
we have been living for two years together.but i found that i didnot love her from my heart.now may i have other choice? my GOD ,sorry!
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17 responses
@plumwish07 (4057)
• Indonesia
23 Apr 08
gee, sorry for saying this but it seems that you are bad person in this case. realizing or not, you would hurt her and i don't know what should i say. if you don't love her then why you should decide to live with her and its already two years in living togethers definetely, i am going with her on this case and you should marry her in my opinion to save her dignity, my friend
• Indonesia
24 Apr 08
i am not sure that either you like or not but please consider everything carefully before you determined it
• China
23 Apr 08
Thank you ,gee
@kezabelle (2974)
22 Apr 08
Dont make a mistake you will always regret if you dont truely love her from your heart then no dont marry her if you think the love you have is strong enough to withstand everything a marriage brings then thats different but if you simply dont think the love you had is gone or not enough dont make yourselves miserable by getting married you will only end up unhappy and hurting
• China
22 Apr 08
she love me so deeply!
• China
22 Apr 08
but she love me deeply
@magrylouyu (1627)
• United States
22 Apr 08
If your heart tells you NO then it's no. You both will be misarble! Dont marry somebody for the wrong reasons. You should tell her how you feel so your not going to hurt her for too long. Let her move on with her life.
• China
22 Apr 08
thank you my friend
@newht351 (74)
• Malaysia
28 Apr 08
i dont think u should marry her.. coz it will hurt her so much when finally she found out.. but, u've been living withh her for two years without any feeling?? ouch,, thats really hurt. my advice talk to her nicely. dont ever just dissapeared. she'll revenge, u know.. woman is full with emotions and very fragile.. hope u can handle this with responsiblity..
• Philippines
29 Apr 08
YOu should not marry someone that you don't love. You have to make your stand! Are u loving sumone else aside from her? Maybe that's the reason why.
• Philippines
29 Apr 08
YOu should not marry someone that you don't love. You have to make your stand! Are u loving sumone else aside from her? Maybe that's the reason why.
@miryam (6505)
• Italy
23 Apr 08
i tthink that are very best ammiucr a misatake, no lie are the normal in live... myryam
@subha12 (18441)
• India
23 Apr 08
i think if you think that you do not live g=her from heart, then do not marry her. i think one should only marry only when you are comfirtable with that person and like to spend your life.
• Philippines
23 Apr 08
If you don't love her anymore,don't force.remember,you don't force love.I'm sure you don't want to end up miserable.
• India
23 Apr 08
hey dude, it seems u hv two options either to go in search for one whom you love or go with someone who loves u so deeply. If u ask me then i will say go for the second option because u never know whether u will get ur love. And one more thing u always feel that grass is greener on other side. All the best.
@Margajoe (4709)
• Germany
23 Apr 08
Hi, At least you are honest. Two years together in the same house. Seems like love to me. I cannot live with a partner if I donĀ“t feel something for the person. Why is it so important to get married? If you want children, it would be different. No parental problems if you get married. But, maybe you love her, but you are just not ready to get married. By the way, What is true Love? Can you tell me? Take care.
@babymar (359)
• Philippines
23 Apr 08
well, i think you should talk to her and tell her everything...tell her about your true feelings, tell her the truth that you don't love her anymore, after you have talked with her, think by yourself....is she the one you want to be with for the rest of your life? if you are really not happy with her, then why do you live with her for two years? if you do not love her then why not live with her from the start? it will deeply hurt her, talk with her about it then think....if you really don't love her then stop....and breakup with her. it is very unfair for her...so you should stop.
@jesbellaine (4139)
• Philippines
22 Apr 08
Hi There. Good day. If you really don't love her then don't push through or don't propose to her. It is better to end the relationship now than marry her then regret it later. You both deserve someone to love and grow old with so if you think that you will not be happy with her, tell her... She will get mad and badly hurt but once she move on with her life and find someone else then she will be thankful that you two didn't get married. Goodluck!
@athinapie (1150)
• Philippines
23 Apr 08
if you don't love that person then you should not marry her. it would be useless getting in a marriage that you're not happy with and you would end up regretting what you have done.
@stacyv81 (5903)
• United States
22 Apr 08
MY best response is this, if you have to ask, should I marry her? Then probably not. You have a choice, you cannot change what you have done in the past, the decisions you made, but you can change what happens from now and on. So, if you do not love her, and your feelings have changed the best thing to do is not waste your time or hers and start this marriage off on a bad note. Be happy and let her be happy. if it isnt together then let her find someone else, and you do the same it wouldnt be fair to either of you to be married if it isnt what you want.
• Philippines
22 Apr 08
rethink of possibilities.Have a space for a while and then ask your self what do you really want
@jmr201 (183)
• United States
22 Apr 08
i think if you dont love her from the bottom of your heart you shouldnt marry her for the wrong reasons you will be misrable and so will she so if you feel you love her like a friend or a sister then dont go ahead and make a big mistake like that