Am I a terrible person?

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My brother-n-law is a 37 year old alcoholic who also does drugs a good bit. He has a girlfriend who keeps throwing him out because she can't make up her mind if she wants him or not. He was banned from my mother-n-law's apartment building because of the way he acts and now the apartment manager from the apartment he was sharing with his so-called girlfriend threw him out this time because he got drunk and told him to go f*** himself. Now he has no where to go and my husband offered him to stay here without asking me first. It's my house too! I don't want to be mean but I can't stand the guy and I don't feel one bit sorry for him because he does this to himself. If he would just get help and get off the drugs and alcohol he would have a better life but he said he doesn't need or want help. Fine if he wants to keep living his life like that it's his own problem, not ours. My mother-n-law is going to try to talk her apartment manager into letting him have his old apartment back in the same building she is in and I hope and pray that's what happens because honestly I don't want him staying here. My husband and I got into a terrible fight about this last month because the same thing happened and I said I didn't want him staying here. I went through enough when my husband was drinking and he finally quit 3 years ago and life has been better. I don't need to put up with that again. I'm stressed out enough without his brother laying around here drunk every day and adding to it, besides, I know this will just add tension to my husband and I and I don't want to keep fighting with him. I understand his brother needs a place to stay but honestly, the "boy" needs to grow up and quit acting like a little teenage boy. He will never grow up though. I say let him go stay with their other brother who lives closer and who is also a big drunk and dope-head. They can drink and get high together all they want as long as they stay away from here. So my question is: Do you think I am a terrible person for feeling this way? We have enough problems without him adding to it. Sorry this was so long but I needed to vent. Thanks for listening my friends. :)