"men"

@natgil (33)
United States
April 23, 2008 9:08am CST
Why is it that men think they are not immune to feelings?? Is it really that difficult to say "I'm Sorry" without feeling like the world is going to fall down around them? I don't even think that there are any "real men" left out there, who actually care.... Is it possible to find truly good-hearted men out there?? Are they all on Mars or what?? Being a single mom is tough enough, but having men turn the other way, just because you have children...grow up!!! nobody wants an instant "daddy", in fact most single moms I know have dads for their children...Why is it so hard for single moms to catch a break at finding love?? We just want someone to treat us with respect, and an equal person....So, what's the problem here????????
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@teka44 (3425)
• Brazil
23 Apr 08
Hi natgil. I understand you very well. I'm a single mom and I finished my relationship with my daughter's father because he is an egoist man. I'm feel alone all the time with him and never hear "I'm sorry" from him. This way I think that is better stay realy alone. But exist many good men out there, you need to give time to find your true love. Don't be hasty to catch the first one that appear in your way. Wait for a man that does't feel like if he is doing a favour to get in relationship with you. Think that you are a wonderful and courageous woman because you are a motther and single and deserve a wonderful man too. cheers and good luck
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@natgil (33)
• United States
24 Apr 08
Thank you. I know some think it's not a "job" being a mother, but they are wrong. Sometimes I am glad that I'm alone. Then there are days when I wish I had someone who'll ask me how my day was. I don't expect to find Mr. Right, but I'm not looking for Mr. Rightnow either.. It gets frustrating, I just gave up looking.
@Gesusdid (1681)
• United States
23 Apr 08
i always say im sorry if its my fault you know , most men who dont admit to saying their sorry all that is , simply they think its a sign of weakness and when it really is is just their Ego of MAN , " Ima Man so i dont have to say Sorry or do womenly things " like that mentallity is str8 and narrow me i say sorry in any problem ..as for the single mom thing , yeah most guys dont want a woman with kids like 1 or 2 sure no problem , and then they're scared of attatchment..i know you have to accept the children too or no one at all but its a serious thing when kids are involved
@natgil (33)
• United States
24 Apr 08
I appreciate your point of view as a man. I can understand why men tend to fear women with children, but not all single moms are looking for a "sugar daddy" for themselves or their kids. Do you think that's why men fear single mothers? Thanks again for your input.