Do you go thru yr parters wallet or purse, cellphone etc?

@mrsjbelle (1641)
United States
April 23, 2008 5:00pm CST
I dont because for the most part I trust him. If hw gave me a reason not to or if I had a funny feeling I might but I do believe in privacy. I wouldnt want him going thru mine every 5 minutes but I dont have anything to hide so if it came down to it. Be my guest. I dont beleive in cheating so he gets 1 chance. If he ever did cheat Im gone. And he knows how I stand on that.
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@john3l6 (187)
• United States
24 May 08
exactly how I feel mrsjbelle. Everyone needs one place to be private. I wouldn't want anyone going through mine even though I'm not hiding anything that is bad ... just private. I remember when I was 21 a neighborhood cop stopped me at a bus stop for no reason that I could determine but he went through my purse. How embarrassing that was ... I was on my way to a sleep over and had change of underwear, underarm deoderant, tooth brush and paste, and the normal stuff (make up, etc.) and a bottle of Jack Daniels. Apparently he didn't find what he was looking for but the bottle of Jack Daniels interested him. It was my 21st birthday the day before so that really made him mad. Oops starting to go off topic ... sorry.
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@shooie (4985)
• United States
19 May 08
No I do not go through my husbands stuff nor does he go through mine. Like ou said is where trust comes in. If he needs something out of my purse or wallet he will bring it to me he won't get in there which sometimes is annoying when I am busy doing something. I tell him get it and he won't makes me grrrrr...lol He's the same way if I need some money or something from his wallet if he is busy tells me to get it or i take him his wallet.
@KrauseHome (36772)
• United States
23 Apr 08
These is no way I could do this. I 100% trust my husband and he has never given me a reason to ever think any other way either. I know he never goes thru my purse either. Even when I want him to get my Debit card out of my purse, he brings the purse to me.
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• United States
23 Apr 08
I am just not inot the private rambling of purses and wallets.. I find it is one of the biggest pet peeves of mine. let me think you went into my handbag and it's over. it has nothing to do with hiding things. My bad is the emptiest of all bags. My wallet or coin purse. My wet wet wipes,pstyle,etc. There is nothing to hide there. i feel it's about boundary's.. There should be some place I can trust not to be raided. I have never stuck my hand in a mans wallet or pant pockets. unless washing the clothing. To be honest most men I have ever dated washed their own clothes.
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• Canada
24 May 08
MY husband and I trut eachother 100%, and we odn't feel that we need to go through anyone's cellphone, wallet, purse, etc. We have nothing to hide from the other, and we respect the other person's privacy, just as we want the other person to respect our own.